To each is own. I feel A LOT safer going to my provider's house than going to a hotel. If the provider's got nosy neighbors that are going to rat her out, then it would've already happpened by the time I got there b/c I'm going to make sure she's well reviewed before I see her. Besides, most neighbors are clueless on such matters. Hotel managers on the other hand are not. Not to mention the most important aspect, in a hotel you're in a public place. Hmm, public vs. private? Gee, I'll take private any day.
BTW- I'll bet you that most of the busts you read about occured at an agency's fixed incall location. Those are to be avoided. An indy's home is vastly different from this.
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What is the best way to avoid being busted when using an in-call service in a hotel?
Well, I never meet at hotels. There are plenty of providers with their own pads, and that really is much safer.
How do you figure this is safer? Now you have much more permanent neighbors who can notice this large number of different men coming/going all the time. At least in a hotel you'll have different folks around you from day-to-day!
I have no idea why someone would consider a fixed or regular incall location safer than a busy hotel, even if the hotel restricts access as most do. You point about the possibility of neighbors noticing the traffic and turning the lady in is also well taken. When I read about busts in the paper, the location normally was a fixed incall where someone noticed heavy traffic of guys that were not from the location, put two and two toghether and called the cops.
An incall that moves around is always safer than one that does not, IMO.
To each is own. I feel A LOT safer going to my provider's house than going to a hotel. If the provider's got nosy neighbors that are going to rat her out, then it would've already happpened by the time I got there b/c I'm going to make sure she's well reviewed before I see her. Besides, most neighbors are clueless on such matters. Hotel managers on the other hand are not. Not to mention the most important aspect, in a hotel you're in a public place. Hmm, public vs. private? Gee, I'll take private any day.
BTW- I'll bet you that most of the busts you read about occured at an agency's fixed incall location. Those are to be avoided. An indy's home is vastly different from this.
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I've never had a problem with any hotels, even high-end rizty ones. I just stride in like I own the place, head for the elevators and up I go. No staff has ever bothered me. As it is a hotel, they are very used to visitors/guests coming and going all the time. The suspicions add up when complaints come from surrounding rooms, but if we are gentlemen we won't pound on the door and draw attention to ourselves.
I've never had a problem with hotels either. I, too act as if I own the place. The concern is not with my behavior. I'm concerned with whether or not the provider has drawn any attention to herself. I mean, how many days a month does a provider use the same hotel? What did she wear when she checked in? Has she had a large volume of clients? What's the situation with the neighbors in the next room? The maids? Has word come down from a top exec for all hotel mgrs. to 'crack down' on pro traffic? From L.E.? While some of this is over-analyzing paranoia, all are much more apt to happen at a hotel than at a private residence. Then there's the possibility of being spotted from afar by someone I know. Even though I hobby in towns other than the one that I live, that possibility exists. Believe me, hearing from my wife, "(Friend A) said they saw you getting on an elevator at (hotel B) in (town C) a couple of weeks ago..." is not a conversation that I care to have.
Also, a lot of the neighbors are usually out of their homes/apts from 8am-6pm which are generally peak appt times for providers, with less being late at night. As long as people aren't causing a ruckus and she wasnt too high volume, I doubt anyone would really notice or care.
I think most private loctions are better! Most of the time the neighbors are at work/school daytime & night inside. I have heard of guys getting busted at hotels.
But you have experienced something that is not what I have. Maybe one of us should post a thread asking those that have been busted how it happened. Items like location, incall versus outcall, private home or apartments versus public accomodations. The answers should shed some light.
Its been a fight for ages.
Whatever is illegal, isnt safe.
Whether it be from incall, outcall, a street corner.
It really isnt something to be debated.
The BEST way is to not hobby, as there is always an inherent risk.
Stick to well reviewed ladies, who are reviewed by hobbyists with many consistent reviews. Even then there is no guarantee....
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I think he means: Stick to well reviewed ladies, who are reviewed by HOBBIESTS with many consistent reviews. Even then there is no guarantee....
by experienced reviewers. Click on the reviewers' names to get a list of other reviews by them. If search shows multiple reviews by each then that's a good sign.
If a lady gets busted, there is the always the chance she will turnover on her clients, or agree to act as a set-up (sorry ladies, just mentioning the possibility).. This is always possible, but not likely.
I’ve been hobbying for 17 years, and have yet to have even a brush with LE.
As others have said, focus on ladies with multiple reviews, particularly from multiple reviewers, particularly over at least 3 to 6 months. Most LE agencies simply do not have the time, resources or interest to create a trap for the careful hobbyist.
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