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I disagree - 'mentioning body type up front' has been posed on TER many times.red_smile
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and continually the ladies overwhelmingly respond by saying "Don't bother"

I know as a provider yourself you're advice is based on knowledge and experience, and its given in empathy for the man's situation.  

But... it really is a downer to have to approach each new provider like there is something "wrong" or detestible with you.

I guess I'm not actually disagreeing with you completely, I just think that unless a guy has a serious reaction to RARE rejection, he should just follow the important rules and forget about it.

Be kind
Be respectful
Be CLEAN
Have the dontation correct
Don't overstay the time booked.

:)

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gorbasim2157 reads

Do quality providers see fat guys?

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Yasodhara1216 reads

I would recommend making mention of your size in the first email.  Some ladies have an issue with it, this way you don't waste time scheduling with someone who isn't right for you.  But lots of us have no issue!  Happy hunting.

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and continually the ladies overwhelmingly respond by saying "Don't bother"

I know as a provider yourself you're advice is based on knowledge and experience, and its given in empathy for the man's situation.  

But... it really is a downer to have to approach each new provider like there is something "wrong" or detestible with you.

I guess I'm not actually disagreeing with you completely, I just think that unless a guy has a serious reaction to RARE rejection, he should just follow the important rules and forget about it.

Be kind
Be respectful
Be CLEAN
Have the dontation correct
Don't overstay the time booked.

:)

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keystonekid803 reads

on "what is fat?"   A guy can be 20 pounds overweight or 100 pounds overweight.  This might matter to a lady, especially if she is petite.

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Yasodhara521 reads

It's not about acting like there's something wrong with you.  I'm a woman of size and I firmly believe that every body deserves to be recognized as the sexual being they are.  There are providers that have limits with regards to large clients.  I'm not suggesting that the client should feel ashamed, or act as if they have a disease and need to have a serious discussion about their tumors.  Not at all.  But mentioning that they are "of size" will tip off the provider.  If she needs to ask more questions she can.  If it's irrelevant it won't be an issue.  The hobbyist Scoed had a really awful experience around this.

Also, my bed frame can't handle a lot of weight.  Neither can my massage table.  If I have a client of size, I may need to book a hotel to avoid breaking my bed.

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hiddenhills764 reads

This is p4p, not match.com   You're physique doesn't really matter.  Be respectfully, show up on time, have excellent hygiene, be squeaky clean and you should be able to see quality providers.  If you're obese, you should give the provider a heads up.  Most experienced quality providers have seen it all, another fat guy will probably not bother them to much.  It's all in a days work. Good luck

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Bostonguy57949 reads

Follow Hidden Hill's advice and I would add that you should be prepared to take a shower when you get to her incall even if it's only been a few hours since your last one.  

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gorbasim699 reads

Thanks for the advice.

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hound_dog69693 reads

a ten if they're clean, not an ass and have their donation properly counted.

Always exceptions, but do you think any business in your city would deny selling you their product because you were fat?

Look at me. I am bald with a hairy back. There has never been a complaint, and the only thing keeping me from looking "completely" fat is my build.

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gorbasim1083 reads

I am fat.

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jaydalee1443 reads

I rather just say a gentleman with a bigger body size I have no problem with.As long as he is clean,respectful,and provides the necessary info required for an appt.I have seen gentlemen in the  past with bigger body sizes and had a great time.As some have said before some providers do have an issue so maybe whoever you are interested in you might want to mention this to see if she has an issue.

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Carrie Hillcrest619 reads

It's in your best interest to be up front about being overweight. MANY ladies don't have an issue with seeing larger men. However, some do, and it's better to find that out before you meet -- being open about your size  could end up saving you time, money, or both.

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