So you've seen two or three well known providers in  your area several times over the past few months and all is great then decide you want to step up a knotch and give tbe new one two of the names as references. They in turn don't respond to her until its too late because im off on the road again. the one i want to see has limited availabilty so it might be months before i get another shot at seeing her.
im in a competitive business so i understand that part and i also understand jealousy. ive never put up with it in strip clubs so im going to put up witb it here either. those two will never see another penny from me.

My question is tbere more i should do like call them and tbeir so called booking agent on their home board or should i just let it ride and start back at square one. id join p411 but wanted to use references not employment info to do it.

Also how do i find ones who are cool and will give the reference when i asked.

Thanks

Don't be afraid of P411 they are legit !

I would attempt to join P411 using the 2 providers you've previously seen as your 2 required provider references.  They may come through for you on that because they will get points added to their account if they vouch for you to join.  (assuming they are members)

and see who white lists. Other wise, as said so many times before...P411, date check, rs2k

You may find if you wirte a review and then ask for a reference, things may turn out differently than you've experienced. This is not a quid pro quo, but I find it easier to  get a reference if 1) I write a review and 2) give her a heads up that another provider will be contacting her.
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Call their toll free number, talk to Gina, and see what she can do to get you verified.  She has a pretty good rep for working with guys to get them verified.  

As far as the 2 that didn't speak up for you, I'd forget them.  It's doubtful that calling them or their booking agent will change anything, but if you think it might, well, up to you.

Finding ones that give references, about the only way is to check their reviewers' profiles and see if they got a whitelist ref from them.  That could be time-consuming.  You can PM some of the reviewers and ask them who's cool about references.  But sticking to well-reviewed providers is usually the best way to go about it.

Swim

Don't expect providers to respond immediately.  And don't conclude that lack of immediate response means they are being catty.