As you all know from my previous post that I'm new provider and just started my webpage to get more exposure. I've taken your advice and made a few additions, tweaks, and screw-ups but for the most part I just added more info.
Since those select few I've told about my new hobby don't know much if anything about the biz, I figured I'd go to the pros and ask your opinions about my ad.
Have I given enough information about myself and what I offer?
Am I charging too much?
Too many words?
I heard that women of color have more trouble starting out than others here in the south, is there anything I can do to make it a little easier? I've only been able to meet one person in the last 2 weeks so I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong or is it simply just me?
Also, I saw in the other posts that craigslist and backpage are more frequently patrolled by LE. Are there any other sites that are a bit "safer" to advertise on?
P.S Don't worry, I won't be flooding the boards with "help me get started" posts. I just want to make sure I'm on the right track.
If more gals did this, I think they would attract more clients.
Your site is attractive and easy to navigate, so that it a big plus. I like the nice bright colors instead of the ubiquitous black backgrounds that so often dominate.
I think that the amount of information you offer about your sessions is sufficient, in any case it does not cross any legalistic lines and there's no harm in playing on the safe side.
In terms of information however, there is one gaping hole which is that you do not tell anyone where you are located. You should mention that on the first page that a person comes to.
I think your rates are more than reasonable, especially with the various discounts you offer.
The amount of text is fine.
You should get more and much better photos as soon as you can. The photos you have now do not reveal much and are underlit. You should also find a way to get them to enlarge more than they do now.
As for sites that are safe from LE, assume that LE trolls all the ad sites, including TER. To protect yourself from LE be sure that you screen well.
Thanks again for asking.
Thank you Mr. F. I also thank you for your concern about me doing incall, however my location will definitely not be in a fixed location. So no one will have to come to my home.
where are you located? You saw the south, but no one knows where. And your rates? Ummmmm what is a cumquats??
LOL Gfe. I'm located in North Florida. Thank you for pointing that out to me, I didn't catch it. Cumquats or kumquats are my rates in this case, but really they're a small citrus fruit similar to oranges. They are sweet on the outside and kind of tart on the inside. I'll include a link. I saw a lot of other ladies using "diamonds, pearls, rubies" and just decided to steer away from the norm a little. I'm quirky and try to be different with everything that I do.
You guys are really helping me out and I appreciate your help. Thank you so much!
Great job Jade, It says your in Tally FL on the Jade page. Maybe you added that after the guys took a look.
I did notice one misspelling in your FAQ
6. Can I record or take photos or our session?
I'm guessing that should say "of" our session?
I definitely agree you should have more pictures. I know a fabulous photographer in Tampa and have recommendations for one in Atlanta I am meaning to try out. Having a good assortment of pics is a good idea. In my opinion it's a good idea to have a mix of pro shots and amateur shots.
Your also welcome to take a look at the links page on my site for a lot of other sites and boards to advertise on. Diversity in advertising is also a good move.
Good luck to you and always willing to help another lady out. Your welcome to email me for photographer info or advice if you need it.
If your are close enough to Atlanta, set up shop there.
mrfisher is very knowledgeable, no disagreement with anything he said. The advance notice is unusual to be specified but a nice touch.
The photos need not be explicit but are small & dark. I want to see 3-5 current photos which give me a good idea of your build & also so I have confidence they are really the person I'm to meet. You might want to blur your face... once out there hard to erase.
I would suggest timely cancelations be given 1 opportunity to rebook. You can tighten this later if it proves to be a problem, since all appointments are at your discretion anyway.
You might provide mouth wash or breath mints for guests.
GFE is more of an advertizing term... Still, do you enjoy kissing? Do you offer BBBJ or CBJ? FS is always covered, of course.
One really nice touch is if there is a place for the gentleman to undress with a chair in exactly the right place. It's a subtile but delightful touch. I can't count the number of times my clothes ended up on the floor.
You should have a business phone separate from your personal phone (shut off the business phone when you are not taking calls). Also a private e-mail account (yahoo, hotmail, etc) for business.
Some sort of background music or white noise to cover what is going on. Never TV.
While "clock watcher" is a negative term a provider must be a good time manager. Some use music tracks (or several with different styles). A Fav lady has a bedside clock that neither of us could see... but I saw (after a year of seeing her) small clocks on the opposite sides of the room. I never caught her looking however.
You really should not work from the space you live in, for security reasons. You should change your meeting place often, so previous clients can not carelessly compromise your security.
That said, I have had providers check me out from a window before giving me the address or room number.
I made the call from the wrong hotel door... the lady said "I can't see you." She was apparently watching from the window.
Another had me call from an intersection... she stayed on the phone with me... directed me around a block to park on the other side... but also to see I was alone.
Best wishes,
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Thank you Scarlett. Yes, I did add my location after it was pointed out that I hadn't included it in my information. I am making changes and additions as you all suggest them.
The only thing that will take me a while to add will me more pics, because I have to get an actual camera.
It was mentioned that I should get a separate phone for business and I plan on doing just that. I intend on keeping my personal life, personal.
I also loved the suggestion of giving directions up to a certain intersection and directing clients to rest of the way over the phone.
I want to keep everything nice and simple, but informative.
Jade. Hire an erotic photographer to take photos for you. Do a google search using erotic photography and the nearest large city in the search string. Analyze carefully before hiring a photographer. Don't spend too much, if you can't get the job done for less than 300 kumquats, walk.
Hi Jade,
The only thing that you should be careful of is on your contact page where you state "Review board handle or 2 provider references (w/contact info):"
While a review board handle can be helpful in learning about a future client, it probably should not be relied on for the screening process. In the beginning for your safety and for some advertising you may want to look into joining one of the verification sites.P411,Date Check, and Room service are the big ones currently.
and noticed that your pics are sub-standard. You don't necessarily need to show the goods but the pics need to be done by a professional photgrapher (or damn good amatuer) so they make you look apealing. Hair can be used to shield part of your face (or you can have it blurred out) and also to cover other private areas. Most guys understand the need for discretion.
Good luck.
Yes. I hate those pics but they were all I had to work with. Normally I'm the damn good amatuer but it's not so easy to take a pic of your own backside. Luckily, I was able to take some way better pics today and hopefully they'll be up within the next 24hrs. Thanks!
Get better photos on your site. You seem to have a smashing body, show it with better photo shots. Display a little turned face, not enough to be identified. Black providers that are good at what they do prosper. Check TER reviews for your region using African American as the race.
Your rates are right for your region. Your booking policy is right, avoid the urge to make same day appointments.
Be patient and post on your local board. I caught one item on your site. You mentioned ultra safe. Most hobbyists take "safe" providers to be ones that offer only covered services including oral, if you're that type change your wording to health concious to attract hobbyists who prefer completely covered interaction.