Have been a hobbyist on and off for ten years or so, mostly AMP. I tend to want to be a girls regular customer, enjoy the familiarity and level of comfort with each other. I get that this is a service but has anyone else but me had a problem separating fantasy from reality ie wanting to be her real life boyfriend. Ming (not her real name since she is reviewed here on TER!) is just so damn friendly and sweet. She texts me between sessions says she misses me.  Hour sessions last almost two. It just seems like it is more than usual client provider relationship. As a 50 year old married white guy with three kids it's obvious we're not gonna run off together. He anyone else gotten too attached to a provider? How did it turn out and what was your exit strategy.

I understand. I'm fairly new to the game and the last one I saw really got me twisted. I was thinking about her more often than I wanted. Sadly I have been unable to see her again (1 month)...

There is no upside to what you are talking about, and nothing but downside.

Yeah I know but some of these girls are so damn good at making you feel special it's like a drug.

Try telling her you have half the money you had before, and see if the VIP experience continues.

Good point, I need to be punched in the face to be reminded sometimes. But damn.

Asian ladies are unusually good at these games.

...gotta keep'em separated. Your two worlds that is. One is your real life that I'm sure you don't want to mess with. One is a fantasy.

I suggest you not have just one you see over and over again. It's great to have favorites but have several and rotate seeing them. You'll find that they can each be a favorite for different reasons and you will see them based on which one you feel like being around at that time.

What she is doing is good customer service and customer relations. Keeping in touch keeps you coming back. It's always important to remember it's a business. They are good at it.

but now and then I get entangled with someone who is, let's say, needy and clingy.  It's hard to resist sometimes, but resist we must, lest our bank accounts and mental stability both get reduced to zero.

Nothing worthwhile is effortless.

but when the door closes between you...  you are strangers.  

I have a Favorite lady...  When we get together for an hour of play, we spend much more together.  We chat, make lunch of the fixings I brought...  until it's time for me to go.   I am fond of her but know in my heart if I was suddenly single again...  it would never work.  

I just enjoy the time when we are together.  In between, I make sure to see others...  It is necessary to balance out those post-coital hormones.

Damn, that pussy is some powerful shit. Thought I knew that.