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I would like to ask a local Atlanta lady to meet me in Vegas for an extended overnight date.  Being a newb, I haven't established any friendships yet, but do have some meetings set up (thanks TER!).  The travel is in one month so I'm running short on time.  

My question is how well do we need to know each other?  I mean setting travel dates like this has to be a larger-than-usual investment of time and energy for a provider and I would like to get this on someone's calendar as soon as I can, but we also have to know each other well enough to know that a date like this would or would not be such a good idea.

Is this something I should spring on her after a first vist, assuming it goes well?  I don't have many weeks left, so my anxiety is probably making me over-think it.  But then, that's why I'm on the Newbie board, right?



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You are going to be in Vegas.

Vegas dude.

Do you realize how many amazing girls are there, right under your nose?  Many well reviewed ladies who can spend an evening with you. Why on earth would you want to fly someone (that you've never even met before!!!) from from Atlanta to Vegas?   I could understand if this was your ATF from ATL and you want to go on a trip with her....but this?  

Think about what you are doing dude.  There is wide selection of beautiful and amazing women available in Vegas and you won't have to pay for someone's plane ticket.

All that aside...yes I if you plan on traveling, I would HIGHLY recommend spending a few sessions with a lady first, to really make sure you are comfortable together, and that you can enjoy extended conversation.  Worst thing would to pay all that dough and then find out you aren't compatible.

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When you see a provider for an hour or an overnight, that's an easy one.  The provider only has to be "on point" for a short amount of time.  Beyond that, she is free to be herself.

Being on a trip with someone means seeing someone when he/she is at his/her worst.  You will quickly find this out.

I used to take girls I was interested in on short trips to figure out if we could go further.  Sometimes, that was the last time I would ever see them.  It's very, very telling, but honestly a high-risk proposition with a provider.

I've come down to this personal preference: I'd only invite a lady on a trip like that (to anywhere) after we've had a few dates and there is an established rapport/comfort level.  So, I'd definitely see her first before I said anything about a trip to anywhere.

For a first time date...it's just too much risk and investment to try and setup a longer term date...and some ladies might not even take it.  Many prefer a 1-2 hr date for first time clients before they'll do anything longer.  It sounds like you are already considering or have already booked appointment 1 with the lady in question.  But, even still...your timeline doesn't allow a lot of opportunity to establish that rapport unless you plan on seeing her a couple times before the trip.  I'd still avoid saying anything until after your first date.  You just never know...she might have a third arm not visible in her pictures :)  he he  (and that may not be a bad feature either)

The other thing to think about is your destination...

LVS is something of a hot bed of talent.  Bringing a lady there (while not unheard of) is something like taking your own mosque to mecca...they have that part covered :)

I think the extended date risk might be reduced by considering some of the wonderful ladies that work out of Vegas.  They are probably used to clients coming in for a few days at a time and they respond to all sorts of requests including extended dates, etc.

As a plan B to your question...consider searching the well reviewed ladies already in Vegas and read their reviews.  You can get a good feel for what kinds of appointments they book.  One example provider that comes to mind is Katie Flowers (full disclosure...i've not seen her...just read the b/w).  She regularly gets very good reviews and I seem to recall she sees out of town gents for extended dates (longer than 2 hrs) based on her reviews.  But, as stated above, there are many ladies in Vegas.  One of the primary reasons I'd go this route is that you avoid paying the lady's travel expenses to bring her with and you can invest more of your budget on the actual date (or two).  And...if you happen to get there with any regularity...you might just find yourself in a good repeat situation.  If your budget isn't a concern...than...not that big of a deal either way I guess.  Just a thought...

Good luck!

Well, I guess I came to the right place to talk about this.  Thanks, guys.

I know Vegas has loads of talent, but my concern was not having ANY familiarity with someone I was going to spend 18-20hrs with.  But now I'm beginning to change my mind about that.  Perhaps a Vegas lady could even help with the plans for dinner and a show...

Secret, thanks for the Katie Flowers tip.  If anyone else has some suggestions, I thank you in advance.  Pardon me while I get busy with some research!


Now your thinking. An extended date with one or more ladies in Vegas vs taking one you don't know anyway is a much better plan IMHO.

no problem.

also...go read the vegas local board...several of the ladies are active there...will give you more insight into the "speed" of each lady.

have a good time!

it's never a good idea to set up an extended date with a provider that you have not already seen more than once.  Chemistry is a huge consideration here.  I know time is getting short for you, but maybe you should have started planning sooner to make a more prudent choice.  There is a wealth of talent in Vegas. why not just sample some of the local fare?

Swim

Wise advice.  Thanks to all.  I consider myself set straight.

You never seen a provider, posted 1 thread ever in Atlanta (today),none on the ISO board & your thinking an Atlanta  provider is gonna fly off to Vegas, but wait you said"meet me in Vegas",so how old are you again?"Larger than usual investment of time"...so you thought she was gonna meet you there ...like an overnight?
Realize you prolly been having fantasies and wet dreams on this scenario, but you never said one word about money did ya?"A fool and his money are soon parted"(yes I can & have been that fool!)I go on out of town trips 4/5 times a year, but in most cases I've known the provider for years!
I'm sorry I'm not trying to attack you here but your OP is really lacking a lot of essentials IMHO.

and the thousands (yes plural),plz plz plz PM me , cause there are Major pitfalls ahead and GAWD knows if you got plans with ...  your chances of having fun are less than the odds you gonna get in Vegas!

I think I know where you are coming from, I myself have looked up a provider, read her profile and reviews, ogles her pictures, and had fantasies of overnights and extended dates with her - same thing with a girl I may have met once for an hour or two -

but as you probably realize by now, spending extended time with a lady is a completely different scenario. You may find yourself contemplating suicide after a couple of hours :-) She may not be able to keep up her "GFE" attitude for 18 hours or more, she may even want to assist you with that suicide.

If you have that kind of money to spend, go to Vegas and treat it like a buffet! Oh man, I'm getting hard just thinking about it...

How bout you take ME with you, I'll be your personal pussy advisor :-)

I am not one of them. Talking to a dude over the phone and online does not tell me shit about how he is going to be behind closed doors, and anyone saying they can read a guy's sexual performance via those means, is very naive, or just outright full of shit. You are investing a serious amount of money, so you better make sure you know what could happen. You should always meet a provider IN PERSON for a few hours, before doing what you want to do. Sorry to all the ladies who make money this way, but it's true. If you don't truly connect, or she is not a great actress who is willing to put up with any situation for a dime, you both lose. Well, you lose more because you just spent thousands on a woman who might not be what you want, and she takes off with your money.

Thing is, we are rarely talking about that kind of money. More like 12-1500 and after her airfare and hotel, she barely makes 200 per hour. I would never do that, without knowing a guy first.

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