Newbie - FAQ

I am very new here and need helpred_smile
tanyatatt 2504 reads
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Ok I am embarrassed as I am on other boards but cant seem to figure this one out. How do I get in contact with gentlmen who can give me reviews on here?? is there somewhere I can post a pic?  Thanks for all the help and take care.

xoxo  Tanya

-- Modified on 2/13/2010 12:56:50 PM

Hi Tanya, and welcome.

Regarding getting your first review, just be patient, they will come. When I was just starting out, I would mention reviews to gentlemen when I met them, and let them know that I was very review friendly. Any gentleman that you see can write a review if they choose to, so its not about specifically seeking out men who are able to write reviews. Not all men write them, but you will build them over time.

As far as posting a pic, if you look to your left you will see a tab for Regional Boards. You can run an ad every 7 days on whatever region you are located in, and you can include a pic in your ad if you choose. To be eligible to run an ad, you need a website, and the first page of your website needs to have the TER logo.

You are also welcome to participate and get involved in discussions on this board, as well as your local board and the other discussion boards on TER. That is a great way of letting guys get to know you as well.

Good luck and have fun!

the date.  Some ladies offer a discount to TER members but not a discount to write a review or do give her a 9-9 and write a glowing review.

The integrity of the review system should not be compromised.  As the guy is leaving or you are leaving his hotel room you could say "I hope you write a review about our time together".

I always mentioned it as they were walking out the door. Something to the effect of "By the way, if you write reviews, I just want you to know that I am review friendly".

I never even liked doing that much, because I always wondered if the guy was thinking in the back of his mind that I was just going out of my way for him in the hopes of getting a review. It seemed to me that even asking for a review after the fact tainted the experience some, or it might appear that way to the gentleman. Once I had a few reviews though, it became a non-issue, and I never ask about them at all anymore.

I've always agreed with you that offering discounts in exchange for a review (even if there are no strings attatched as to the quality of the review) taints the entire system.

First, there is a Newbie Manual that is linked at the top of this page that you really should read as it has all the information on how to use this site, including answers to the questions you ask.

To help you out a bit, let me describe a few things.

You are allowed to contact gentlemen by advertizing on your local board.  Look over to the left and you will see a drop down menu for Regional Boards.  Select the area most suitable for you.

Advertizing, which includes making known your availabiltiy and other information (including photos) can only be done once every seven days.  To post a photo, that photo must be first uploaded onto the internet.  You just enter the URL of the photo in the "picture url" box that appears at the bottom each time you go to post a message.

You may link to a website or ad site (assuming you have one) whenever you post in the same manner as how you post a photo, ad or not.  The thing to remember is that a TER logo must appear on the first or main page of your site for you to be able to do this.  How to do this is explained in the Newbie Manual.

When you do get a review, you will then get what's called a profile page which contains your reviews as well as vital statistics about you and links to your website and/or ad site.

You may post on any board as much as you like as well, and thereby get known to the gentlemen on here.  Many gals find that a wonderful way to meet clients, and clients like myself likewise enjoy getting to meet gals that way.

Spend some time reading the Newbie Manual, and then read some of the Boards, especially your local board, the General Discussion Board and this one.  That way you'll get a good feel for how to participate.

Much success to you.

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