First timer here. I'm busy reading everything I can on this new hobby. When selecting my first provider, do I want experienced or inexperience? What are the pros and cons to each?
You are not yet going to have references, and will therefore lack the key that unlocks the "professional provider" door.
This was incremental for me, as I would think it is for many. Fisrt an agency. Then a couple of BackPage girls, with the BP girls as references I was able to see my first reviewed TER provider, and with her as a reference other doors gradually began to open for me.
The specific answer to your question is "experienced" because an experienced provider will have learned that there is more to this than having hit the genetic lottery (being beautiful) and spreading her legs. Most men are in this hobby because they have unmet emotional needs in their marriage more so than unmet sexual needs (although both certainly come into play) and an experienced provider has learned the value she provides in just allowing you to hold her and be held, the value of softly caressing your skin and making you feel....wanted. Not likely to get that from an agency girl and next to never going to find that in a Backpage/inexperienced provider.
As I said to another here this week, you will likely start out seeing women further down your fantasy girl list than you prefer. Treat that lady like she was your first choice, with utmost respect for her body and her emotional well-being, and she will show you every bit as great a time as that women at the top of your list. She will also then become the reference that you need to keep climbing that list.
...see a well reviewed provider. That of course means she will be experienced. Check into a verification service like P411 or Date Check. They can let providers that are registered with them know that you are legit so they will see you. Do a lot of reading here & read the Self-Help Center. Upper right of the discussion board under the life preserver.
I would refrain giving advice on this board until you are no longer a newbie. No offense. Its just that for a first timer, the generally accepted advice from this board is for the guy to make sure the girl has considerably more than just a "couple of good reviews". We advise that the girl is well reviewed here and that her reviewerers have written numerous reviews of other ladies as well.
yes I would say that's always the best option for a newbie. You don't want "experienced" to mean she is fkin 4 guys a day, I would assume lol. Some guys like the young ones, and some prefer more providers in the 30-40 range...that's just a personal choice. Regardless of what you go with, make sure she is well reviewed on THIS board, and that her reviewers also have a history. There can be a mix of newbie and veteran reviews, but if she has say 5 pages, at least half of those should be from hobbyists who have credibility, otherwise, the reviews are questionable. I don't really know of that many women who ONLY have reviews by first time reviewers.
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