Relative newbie to the hobby, only seen one provider, so maybe this is a silly question. I'm meeting a new friend this weekend and want to bring a gift of dark chocolates, I hear they can be quite the aphrodisiac

Do ladies accept chocolates from a new friend? Of course we'd both be eating it, but I don't want her to feel like i'm trying to slip her something...

Suggestions/Experiences from providers and hobbyists are welcome and much appreciated!

Although a nice gesture, make sure she is not lactose intolerant first. I have had several gentlemen bring me chocolates before, which I could not eat, due to the lactose intolerance, lol. Same goes for a bottle of wine... make sure she drinks first. Some ladies have likes & dislikes listed on their P411 profiles... maybe check it out if she has one?

I personally don't like dark chocolate and as for it being an aphrodisiac, how much would you have to eat...

I don't think you will have any trouble with her level of performance, she's a professional and will show you a great time.

You could always ask her if she minds, won't be a surprise but sometimes better to know in advance.

WHat woman doesn't like some form of chocolate.

Oh hang on, maybe best not to bring chocolate...I have read that some women prefer chocolate to sex. You might be sitting their watching her enjoy her chocolate instead of you enjoying her...sorry couldn't resist..just playing with you.

As nikkey mentioned, many ladies will have a suggested gift list or preferences, and many will also list things they don't like or are allergic to. If the website doesn't say anything either way, just don't be upset if she doesn't accept them. If she declines, it is probably not 'you.' As far as 'slipping her something,' just make sure if you do bring something consumable, whether bottled water, wine, candies, or whatever, that it is brand new and in a sealed container. Let her open it.

Milk chocolate or any?

I can't recall a provider saying no when I gave them a gift card (usually VS or a nice department store) or a candle. I've also brought an unopended bottle of wine. The candles and wine make good items for re gifting if the lady doesn't accept.

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more than a few gals struggle to keep their weight in line, and chocolate isn't exactly the most diet friendly food there is.

I would suggest you bring it up first to make sure you are not wasting your money on something that will not be appreciated.

Needs to be in a sealed container.  Even if it is don't count on the lady opening the box and eating any of the candy.  She may keep it, she may re-gift it or she may throw it away...

On the other hand she may eat em' all like my ATF does!

makes an enjoyable time even better. Chocolate goes well with champagne.

As BG said, the package should be sealed when you arrive.

this is the reason why providers have wish lists..i am sure she would rather gag on you instead of chocolates..

Posted By: mark.wang52

Relative newbie to the hobby, only seen one provider, so maybe this is a silly question. I'm meeting a new friend this weekend and want to bring a gift of dark chocolates, I hear they can be quite the aphrodisiac

Do ladies accept chocolates from a new friend? Of course we'd both be eating it, but I don't want her to feel like i'm trying to slip her something...

Suggestions/Experiences from providers and hobbyists are welcome and much appreciated!

Sometimes their favorite flower ( perf411), , sometimes chocolates, occasionally a bottle of wine, and once, where I read that she was a diet coke addict, a 6 pack of diet coke. Small gestures are often appreciated in a BIG way.


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I mean, fried chicken is awfully popular. Though you may want to make sure the cock has been prepared, that is de-headed and plucked first, since that can be a lot of work. Although in thinking about it you may consider giving her a hen instead of a cock, since a hen can lay eggs for her and be a gift that keeps giving.

I like to think the ladies love lingerie. As do I.

Nothing, lol.... when you are lactose intolerant, you cannot consume any milk based products, including chocolate(but most can eat cheese & yogurt

I asked, because I am mildly lactose intolerant and I can eat chocolate that doesn't contain milk products. There are many dark chocolates without milkfat in them... you should check into them if you love chocolate.

Posted By: nahtynikkey

Nothing, lol.... when you are lactose intolerant, you cannot consume any milk based products, including chocolate(but most can eat cheese & yogurt

Posted By: faxinator

Milk chocolate or any?

Posted By: nahtynikkey

Although a nice gesture, make sure she is not lactose intolerant first. I have had several gentlemen bring me chocolates before, which I could not eat, due to the lactose intolerance, lol. Same goes for a bottle of wine... make sure she drinks first. Some ladies have likes & dislikes listed on their P411 profiles... maybe check it out if she has one?

bring comfortable buying a bra and panties( brief, thong ) for a woman whom I am meeting for the first time, or even ad a repeat.

I don't think I have ever brought lingerie on a first date. I would lean toward a smaller gift, wine, for a first time... Chocolate never goes over well with the ladies it seems... (must be their diets