I'm not necessarily looking for FS in my encounters with providers. I'm fine with just a good BJ/HJ and some LFK, is that strange? Should I tell the provider this information before hand?

...massage reviews.  You may find the services you desire without paying the premium for the FS you don't want.

Clarifying your desires 'tactfully' prior to the appointment is always a good policy.

I had to think about that... for you.   Yeah msybe you should make that clear for discount.  As long as provider knows what you want you should be fine.  If a reliable lady takes you on, she would offer a discount...

I disagree about stating your desires tactfully before the appointment. Since it is illegal to offer sexual acts for money, many ladies will be very wary if you do this and may screen you out.

My answer; not strange.

About six months ago, I met one girl. She told me that she is not a f/s provider (even not a MP). However, other things (BJ/HJ/DFK/Russian/DATY) were good.

I've tried doing this BigPapasan but it seems like every listing on here is Escort/Massage, it's hard to find a list of exclusive massage reviews on TER.

And Alex brings up a good point, I don't want to be screened out for bringing up explicit details about the date by saying I don't want FS.

So, you mean I'm NOT paying for her time?  Guys would love to pay less for not partaking of everything on her menu, but you're setting this guy up for a fall...

I seldom partake of the entire menu, particularly if the menu includes things I don't like. There are some things that are on some menus that I won't do because I believe they are degrading. Maybe I'm just a prude, but -- hey, I'm paying for the time and I can be a prude if I want.

But I'd never dream of asking for a discount for that. My attitude is just like the disclaimer: I am paying for the lady's TIME, and anything else that may develop is incidental.

There are just too many ladies out there who have so much on the ball that it would be a real insult to try to discount them because you didn't use the full menu.

cumming with a cover.  A good BBBJ or Russian can be very satisfying.

Word.  I know one guy who can't with it on.  He and I have been friends a long time so we can talk frankly about this and he tells me no matter what brand he uses he can't reach orgasm with the condom on.  However, he loves DATY and Russian so it gets him off and his girl is more than willing to accommodate.

Has he tried a larger size condom?

I was having a little difficulty with this, especially coming back for seconds, so on her next visit, a provider I used to see regularly brought along some of those Magnum XL condoms. I never thought of myself as an XL kind of guy, but what a difference!

You know, I did ask him that.  I also thought maybe lambskin (he and his girl are in an established relationship with no STD risk, they just don't want babies) or some of the "gentler" ones.  No dice.  He says it cuts him at the base.  I asked if he was uncut (heh, he won't show me, some friend!) and he says he is so I thought maybe that, too?

I get requests for hour long half service all the time. Its one of my great talents lol. I believe everyone knows what they like, what turns them on, and gets them off. You are the one donating so, of course the time should be yours and all of your fantasies should be fulfilled.

-DP

They are less constricting at the base in addition to allowing more movement at the end.

If he just wants to avoid parenthood (can't blame him) he should get a vasectomy. I got mine about 20 years ago, just in time for the AIDS scare. I was so pissed. Other than the time a couple of lesbians who were dear friends of mine approached me about helping them have a baby, I've never regretted it.

He'd prolly go all whiny if I suggested someone take a knife to his wee-wee, LOL!  Although is it a knife?  I don't even know where the incision for that is!

I gave him an XL from my collection (hehe) and he said the same thing.

OMG! You would be my favorite client!
I have a client who never wants FS. He likes to talk. He is my favorite client. It's very nice to just talk.

and I'll show you exactly where that incision was.

The urologist who did mine used a scalpel with a  #11 blade. I think that was fairly common then, but more and more they're using a minimally invasive technique called keyhole entry, where they poke through the scrotum with a pair of closed forceps, which are then used to minutely dissect the membranes of the spermatic cord and grasp the vas deferens so it can be pulled outside, transected and ligated. They use a local anesthetic, usually lido, so the procedure isn't painful, but the post-procedural pain can be excruciating, although nothing compared to childbirth I wouldn't imagine.

PA?  Heeey, my old stomping grounds.  I'm an NJ girl myself but did summers/parties/various other crap in the Poconos.  I was, in fact, just up there in June.  I don't know how far KoP is, tho, my geography is pretty crappy.

...btw that description made me cross MY legs and I'm a chick.  You're a brave soul.

Brave??? Puhleeze! Having kids is definitely a more painful experience. Especially with someone you don't really like all that much.

King of Prussia is right next to Valley Forge, about 15-20 miles northwest of Philadelphia. Let me know the next time you're up this way, whether on business or pleasure... Honestly, how DO you tell the difference???

Heh, wouldn't know, I don't have any.  

I'll be up in NJ maybeperhapspossibly at the end of the year.  It's a long time to wait, I know.  When I go it's always pleasure, no business ties up there anymore, just friends.  Wanna be the exception, my new message board playmate?

I would be honored. (schwinnnng!)

You might want to think about making a day of it though. I'm sure other guys in the area will read this thread and start salivating, and it would be a shame to pay for whole day at a hotel and not use it.

Get a room, go to chat, or go to PM, but don't post on this track anymore.

DC.