Newbie - FAQ

I agree bri, ASSuming is bad
chedsw3 2032 reads
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I am a newbie. I frequently see provider ads that do not mention services or donation amounts . The just say "call me"! So if they dont want to discuss these subjects over the phone or dont want to text me . So how is this done? does she PM the client or ask for my email? Im kind of confused.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 803 reads
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2 / 13

Stick to well reviewed ladies. These will usually have their rates posted on their ads and websites. Plus if they are reviewed here, the rates will be on the TER profile.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 826 reads
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3 / 13

If she has reviews her rate should be on her profile, if she has a website the rate can usually be found there. If she has neither reviews nor a website, you should be looking for someone that does. Discussing sex acts for money by phone, email or text can lead to many problems. There are many good options to choose from that don't leave you guessing. Don't make problems for your self by seeing the wrong provider.

clarence37 37 Reviews 635 reads
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4 / 13

are often less-than-professional; the types that will try to feel you out to get the most out of you that they can. Also, they may quote you a price, and then after they collect they will say, ok, that got us together, now what do you want to do (and everything is extra).

I also am assuming you are seeing these ads on backpage or someplace similar.

As others have and will tell you, stick to girls with good reviews until you are strong and experienced enough to venture out into the TOFFT jungle :D

brilove See my TER Reviews 592 reads
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6 / 13

I post on bp and don't list my fee there and I'm not a rip off ... Some are true but don't assum

chedsw3 621 reads
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8 / 13

So Brilove, I don't assume that they are all ripoffs as well. But if I can ask, why don't you put your donation amount in the ad? It would seem to create a lot less  hassle.

clarence37 37 Reviews 476 reads
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9 / 13

That's why I didn't assume anything. If you re-read my post, you'll see that I said that girls who don't post rates are OFTEN blah blah blah.

I didn't say that applied to everyone. And if you read my reviews, as a VETERAN of backpage use, I stand by my statements.

And finally, the girls I'm talking about are girls who probably:
1) advertise on backpage only, with no website or P411/Date-check presence
2) appear and re-appear with different names and phone numbers
3) have no reviews (or 1-2 bad ones)
4) are agreeable to everything you ask on the phone, and don't screen at all.

brilove See my TER Reviews 478 reads
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10 / 13

Its just so many people complain about backpage ... Tons of it warranted yes ... I know I started with an agency that did all of those things and because of that and few others things, I went indie. There was a time when I didn't post my rate anywhere and had no reviews ... It wasn't until I got my ter review and found this forum that I got on p411 and my rates were listed. Ter (as well as p411 and dc) definitely help make this more professional and safer for all but as they say there gems in the rough and I'm so glad I was given the chance.  

I just wanted to remind others that not all of bp is bad and I am thankful for it otherwise I would not be having all the fun I am now with the awesome benefits.

FlaSailorRon 24 Reviews 491 reads
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12 / 13

True, but enough bad apples in the mix can ruin the apple sauce.

1192967 45 Reviews 604 reads
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13 / 13

...post your donation amount when you started? Also, how did you handle that question when a potential client made contact?

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