i have been in contact with a local provider thru both e-mail (she has a very nice website) and phone. she has pre-screened me and has approved me for a visit. she has no reviews because she asks her clients NOT to review her. should i be concerned or just TOFTT?

Where does she have ads?  That could make a difference.  If she is a bp or cl girl, I'd be hesitant to see her.  If she has ads on here in the regional board, get VIP and ask some of the guys on that board if they have seen her.  

Is she on any of the verification sites?  That would speak to her legitimacy.  How did she pre-screen you?  There's another clue.

There are many providers that do not want reviews, so that may not be relevant to you.  There are many reasons for not wanting reviews.  You should have some concern, but the bottom line is, you have to make the final decision.  But, do as much as you can to find out more about her as I have indicated above.

Good luck,
Swim

I see many posts regarding avoiding CL and BP girls. I for one never used CL but I still use BP after being a provider for a few months now. Yes, I'm still obviously a newbie and no I never ask people to not review me...not sure why a girl would do that other than to keep a low profile in which case she would probably not be on a site where you could find her (JMHO).

At any rate, like I said, I still use BP even tho I have quite a few reviews on other sites and only 3 here because I don't get nearly the interest I want from just here. Perhaps one day I will and will no longer use BP but until then I will and I'm most certainly a legit girl lol.

Would probably worry a little about the no review thing especially if she is on one of those because if that's where she's posting reviews can only help...if you found her by a suggestion of a fellow hobbyist I would not worry.

My .02

You should check to see where else she advertises at and how long.Does she belong to any verification sites?Some ladies do not want reviews and that's their choice.Theres alot of ladies on here well-reviewed if you are feeling unsure why don't you go with one in your area?

It sounds like LE is not really a concern here but obviously you have no way of knowing what sort of service to expect from the lady.

Not every gal wants reviews. I have a fav who I met on CL six years ago who has never been reviewed on TER and never wants to be.  She is a great lady and the sex is amazing but if I hadn't rolled the dice on her one horny night in Philly six years ago we never would have met...

Since the OP has placed his inquiry on the Newbie board, I'm assuming he's asking the question due to his status AS a newbie.

One of the cardinal rules that has been repeated many times at TER is that a newbie should NEVER risk himself with an unreviewed provider.

Let someone else with more experience make the judgment call to give her a review. Although I've never come across that situation, I wouldn't hesitate to put up a review on a provider that gave a less-than satisfactory performance (and I mean close to horrible, not that we just didn't "click"], even though she didn't want one posted.

This forum is here for the express purpose of building a data base of reviews, so that its members can make a more-informed decision. If you're here looking for that guidance, then follow that guidance and stick to well-reviewed providers.

Once you have the experience, then you might feel better about such a situation --

The provider I met thurs nite has been online with several sites preferred411, date-check, escorts.com but I knew her awhile before.Your provider may not want national recognition too? as the escort I seen said shes listed on 1 of the above sites.  CD