You can choose to shop elsewhere, and tell her, if you can't verify her (maybe ask around the RO board).
If you see her and are happy, no review. However, a no review policy does not extend beyond the requirement to prevent scams or ripoffs of our brethren.
have contaced provider thru her personal website about meeting. she states that she does not want nor have reviews on TER or any other services. this brings up the age old question of do you visit someone whom you can't get the research on. how do you more experienced guys handle this. i'm sure she is not the only one that fits this category.
Ironically, it was from the reviews they did have up already which in some cases they didn't even know about.
I have had appointments with just two gals who had no reviews.
In one case, she was new to the business and started posting a lot on the GD board and others. We started PMing each other and go pretty close over weeks and weeks of nearly daily correspondence, so we decided to meet.
In another case, I was PMed by a TER member who knew that I like tantrikas. He turned me on to a wonderful tantrika who lives nearby and turned out to be a fantastic provider. She just prefers not be have reviews as she is somewhat UTR.
There are some good providers out there who just prefer not to have reviews, so you have to rely on word of mouth from people you trust.
Why does TER honor the "non reveiw" requests of some providers? Quite frankly, except in extreme circumstances (physical safety of provider), they provider really shouldn't have a say on whether or not she is listed on this website (I'm ducking now for all the crap that is going to be coming my way).
This website/community isn't for the convenience and protection of the providers - they have their sites for that. It's for our protection and our convenience. And, I somehow doubt if a client got a black mark on a provider site the client could get their entry removed. Heck, the client wouldn't even know as we can't go into those sites.
I don't think it is TER who honors the "no review" request. I think it is hobbyists who are gentleman who honor this request.
Some men just don't write reviews. Some people don't want incrimination in writing out on the internet. I don't have a review for a while, but I am steadily busy.
I also noticed a huge decrease in review writing since TER changed the format where only VIP can see any info on reviews also.
TER will not remove ripoff reviews even at the request of the provider. So, your attempt at a correlation to a client being on a blacklist isn't equitable.
Why does TER honor ladies that ask their reviews be taken down? Maybe because the women are actual human beings with lives and not just a product that's only existence is for the clients?
A young lady that is using this line of work to finance her career, or whatnot should not have a say on if gory details permeate the web?
that there have been instances of LE taking ladies' reviews to a bust and threatening to use them against her in any prosecution (the more reviews stating the same activities being used as corroboration that the infraction occurred)...
but what's all that to you wanting to know everything in graphic detail about every lady you see an ad for?
If you need reviews to feel safe seeing a lady just don't see the one's that don't have reviews, let the ladies' request to not have reviews effect your deciding to be a client...but don't compel a lady to have out there information she isn't comfortable with. (kind of like clients shouldn't give info they aren't comfortable with)
As for why clients aren't allowed into provider sites.. the only way to truly blacklist a client is with actual information about a client (real name, real phone, real employment) and that that information isn't out there for anyone that has a curiosity is a good thing.
As for ladies requesting that clients not write reviews, that should be honored so long as she isn't a ripoff or and that the request isn't made to dupe other clients. If the session was good, and the review would be favorable there is no reason that the request shouldn't be honored.
You can choose to shop elsewhere, and tell her, if you can't verify her (maybe ask around the RO board).
If you see her and are happy, no review. However, a no review policy does not extend beyond the requirement to prevent scams or ripoffs of our brethren.
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