Here goes I have seen some fantastic providers no complaints about any of them.. The ones I have the best time with we chat for a bit then it’s mind blowing action paced for the next 1 hr 45 min... lately I am noticing the talking is getting longer action shorter ... is this a hustle ? I am genuinely a straight up person like to get to know people and my visits  are alway 2 hours + outcalls  
I am curious if this is a  hustle for extending time which I have had to do  to avoid being left with blue balls .... or I am letting it happen? I like to be respectful and make sure I am not making anyone uncomfortable but I also don’t want to be taken Advantage of ...

Thoughts from providers particularly welcome PM ok as well

One additional bit of context I have awesome great conversations with several providers... I really enjoy a good mix of good conversation and fun...
But if I am developing a reputation as a talker who can be hustled I want to fix myself

Talking to a wonderfully intelligent women is a turn on in itself, but like you were saying about getting played I try to keep th talkin under/to 15 min as it’s reaching th mark I would say “yea well should we get th fun started? I had long day ahead of me/long day today.” But if I could I would talk to the ladies for awhile but I paid for that time so why waste time talkin when she can be slobbing? Haha

and say, "Let's get undressed and start making out."

 
I find this works wonders, and no one (so far) has ever said:  "No, I'm not ready yet.   I need to tell you about (daily life disappointments, etc.)

 
Very often, the quality of a session is what you insist on, not what she just decides for that day.    In fact, this little aphorism is true in many facets of daily life.   Demand what you want, or find someone who will do the job.

...for talk and connection in your play -- but remember that the primary reason you are there and PAYING FOR THEIR TIME is to play. I also book extended sessions, repeat with a couple of faves with whom I connect quite nicely and we'll share a bottle of tasty adult beverage while catching up. This usually lasts about 15 minutes and then the kissing and clothing removal stage of our time together gets started. A hot woman in lingerie sitting next to me, stroking my leg, tends to have the requisite effect

There's also time in between or at the end of "hot & sweaty" to talk in the shower or share some ice cream.  

Keep it fun

Yes, in a way you are being hustled, but you are bringing it on yourself.

 
There is nothing wrong with a bit of small talk, but PLEASE keep in mind that very few of us are paying for "time and companionship" and there is plenty of time between rounds on a 2 hour session for conversation.

 
Personally, unless I am spending the entire evening with a lady, and most of the time even then, I start the action just as soon as I possibly can. Oftentimes the DFK at the door (her door or mine, it doesn't matter) leads to the action starting without so much as a hello, but everyone starts at their own pace. My suggestion is to just be direct that you are "ready" either verbally by saying something like "lets get naked" or by your actions by doing something like drawing her close for a kiss. If your lady/s resist your wanting to get things started then yes, they are taking advantage of you and you need new women in your life.

Some guys do like to spend a lot of time talking. I have heard of sessions that pretty much only  involved talking. While it is true that some ladies might be "hustling" you, others might think that you are the one that just wants to talk. In either of those cases you just have to make the move. GaG and fish both mentioned ways you can easily move the session forward.  

Good luck.

Some women just talk a lot! However, I have noticed a few providers as of the last year or so, who are control freaks. They seem to lead the whole date down to the wire from hello to goodbye. I don't repeat with those women. It doesn't feel like a rushed session, it feels like a guided tour LOL. That's why I have my ATF's. The best providers are the ones that spend about 10 minutes, allowing you a chance to relax upon arrival, and chats a little bit, getting you into the mood. The rest of the talking happens after round 1, and before round 2, if there is a round 2. If you ever feel a provider is babbling, or filibustering, simply smile and say, would you like to get more comfortable? That usually gets things moving without sounding like a dick.  

It's not happened recently but it has in the past...  where we spent 10minutes... or more...  on the couch getting aquainted.  Conversation doesn't have to stop but it's surprisingly easy to get distracted & fail to get the action going when it should.  After 5-10 minutes one of you should suggest to "get the party going" or "get comfortable" or your choice of verbage.  She may think you just want to chat that much.  If she doesn't make the move to get started it's up you to do so.  
With 2 hours, you don't have to rush...  but still you're there for a reason.        

This! I have some clients where they LOVE talking. Part of the GFE for them is having me listen and support them in what they’re discussing. And when they’re ready to move things along, I take their cue and we start playing.  
Recently I had a more nervous client who didn’t seem sure of what to do. So I led into it with the talking— physical contact, getting closer, showing him that I was ready when he was.  

So if you don’t like the talking (or not til “intermission”), make that known! If someone wants to get right into it, I’m down. But it’s my job to make people comfortable, especially for incalls where they might be on their guard, and I do that by connecting with conversation. Never thought about it as a hustle, or “how much time can I waste doing this?”