I'm new to the hobby and of course my biggest concern is running into a sting. I've joined this community because after reviewing it with a free account curiosity got the best of me so I signed on for three months to get a better feel and see more as a VIP member. Anyway my question is this. What is the best strategy to use when screening a provider? I've already had an encounter which had me SO nervous I kept losing my erection. The girl answered the door and was the same girl in the photos so things went from there. But still, the thought of another encounter excites me but as is the case, I cannot afford an arrest for solicitation. Hopefully there is a LE person here anonymously of course who can provide info. Thanks all!
...providers. Check her reviews to see if the reviewers themselves are veteran hobbyists.
One thing I do is to see if she has whitelisted some guys. It's not likely she's LE, especially if the whitelisted guys have other whitelists from well-known providers.
However, there's the very, very, very remote possibility that she's been busted and forced to help the cops bust her customers. But you shouldn't really worry about that.
you have a couple of issues here. I agree with seeing only providers with several reviews. That should take care of the LE problem, but well reviewed providers occasionally get busted, just sayin'.
If you get that nervous, you might want to let the gal know before the date so she can be prepared for this. You might also want to see a more mature provider who might be able to put you at ease. Not that a younger one couldn't.
Other suggestions would be book a longer date so you don't get in a rush to perform if you don't get going right away and the time starts getting short, or try a dinner date where you can get to know her first and be more comfortable, also might get so excited about what's coming up you don't get "nervous".
I heard that, is it one more thing that could help to screen?
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Yes, I think this is true, if they agree to an outcall it's less likely to be LE. One other strategy I thought of is to only book providers that are touring in your town from out of state. You can verify that she is really from a different state because of her reviews, and the area code of her phone number. (The area code doesn't have to match exactly where she is now, since a lot use cell numbers and don't bother to change them when they move. Just as long as it's an area code from outside your state). I think it's really unlikely that a law enforcement agency will flip a provider, and then send her out of state to nail people there. Also this will probably only work if you live somewhere where providers tend to visit.
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Pick a well reviewed provider that has at least 5 reviews and has been around for at least 6 months.
Book an outcall. (You may have to get your own hotel room since some probably won't go to your house)
Pick a provider that is visiting in from out of state.
All of this would cut the risk, but it would still never be zero, so you probably also want to make sure you save up some money in a rainy day fund to hire an attorney, if the worst happens. I think that's probably about the best that you can do.
hmmm...I am not convinced of that. I know that LE can get access to foreclosed homes that are abandoned. They set up drug busts in these places from time to time, so I am not sure going to a home is better.
At any rate an outcall is safer for the client, not for the provider. Is is more dangerous for the provider. This is part of the reason why they cost more, and some providers don't do it at all.
and this is a thread about "hobbyist" safety, not the safety of providers.
It is true that LE does set up stings at hotels, but from a hobbyists perspective it is less likely that LE would allow a woman "decoy" to be alone in the room or home of a potential perp without being able to control the situation. Outcalls are certainly not a foolproof way of avoiding LE, but it is simply one more tool in the bag.
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