Newbie - FAQ
How to know if the provider is virgin friendly?
hibabe007
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I disagree with the first poster, in that I believe it's essential to mention it before setting up a date (I also disagree with his or guesses as to why providers prefer older men, but that's a different post). First, you can ascertain that she is mature and patient enough to assume the responsibility of showing you a great first experience 
Some lower-quality providers might have a get 'em in, get 'em off, get 'em out type of mentality, and you definitely don't want that. Also, if you're open, she'll know to give you more direction or encouragement than she might otherwise... and, you'll feel more comfortable voicing any questions or concerns.
Once you've chosen a lady who seems like a fit, then - using non-explicit terms - let her know that this will be your inaugural voyage.
I disagree with the first poster, in that I believe it's essential to mention it before setting up a date (I also disagree with his or guesses as to why providers prefer older men, but that's a different post). First, you can ascertain that she is mature and patient enough to assume the responsibility of showing you a great first experience Some lower-quality providers might have a get 'em in, get 'em off, get 'em out type of mentality, and you definitely don't want that. Also, if you're open, she'll know to give you more direction or encouragement than she might otherwise... and, you'll feel more comfortable voicing any questions or concerns.
*Modified to say that by 'experienced,' I mean someone who's been in the business for a while, with a long-standing good reputation.
Might want to post an ISO on your local board, and see if anyone replies with specific recommendations.
I disagree with the first poster, in that I believe it's essential to mention it before setting up a date (I also disagree with his or guesses as to why providers prefer older men, but that's a different post). First, you can ascertain that she is mature and patient enough to assume the responsibility of showing you a great first experience
Some lower-quality providers might have a get 'em in, get 'em off, get 'em out type of mentality, and you definitely don't want that. Also, if you're open, she'll know to give you more direction or encouragement than she might otherwise... and, you'll feel more comfortable voicing any questions or concerns. *Modified to say that by 'experienced,' I mean someone who's been in the business for a while, with a long-standing good reputation.
Might want to post an ISO on your local board, and see if anyone replies with specific recommendations.