Hi.  I'm relatively new to the hobby and wanted some advice from the experienced providers and hobbyists on how to have the best first meeting with a provider.

I've done the massage parlor thing for a while now, but that just isn't working for me.  I want to find a couple providers that I could see on a semi-regular basis.  I've gotten my VIP membership here -- which I highly recommend -- and have been doing my research with the reviews of providers in my area.

I've tried a couple agency girls, and things did not go as well as I had hoped.  The girls were nice, but weren't quite what I was looking for.  I was also a bit nervous, which didn't help, but I think that will fade with time and repetition.

Aside from verification -- which I would have to do using work into -- what things should a newbie like me do to maximize my first experience with a specific provider?  I want to make sure that she is comfortable with me and that we have a mutually good time.

Thanks!

Polite..
bring a nice trinket
brush teeth
ask her to shower before..
Nice breath..

Tell her what you've told us above.  If possible, try to build up a little bit of rapport with her first via email (not all providers allow this but many indies will).

Choose girls whose reviews say how friendly they are, that can make a big difference in helping you relax.  

You're right your nervousness will ease soon so don't worry too much about that.

Finally, just be yourself, you'll relax much more quickly if you are not trying to impress her.

Have fun

I'm new to this thing also, and have only seen one person.  She is a great lady, and makes me feel at ease and very comfortable.  The question I have is this:  Part of a sexual experience for me is to please her first.  How do I ask her what she enjoys?  What would you ladies want if you went to a male escort?

Communicate

Bill, just ask her, I'm sure she won't mind and in fact will appreciate it.  Communication is important in any relationship and a relationship with an escort is no difference.

Re:Communicate

Thanks,
You are the Queen.

If you are kissing her all over, move down her front from her breasts to her stomach then to the Y.  Ask her to guide you as you dine for her maximum pleasure.

I'm sure it'll be a piece of cake

I'm going on my first call on Friday...wish me luck.

That is scheduled 4, 1 hr., when U start "playing the field"....Good luck!

Ordinarily, I wouldn't reply to such an asinine message.  I recognize that this is a business, but I also recognize that these are PEOPLE that we are dealing with.  Not fucking robots.  What I'm looking for is none of your fucking business nor is why I'm looking for it.