A few weeks ago I booked a provider for two hours, and we wound up hanging out for almost five. I saw her again the week after - we arranged to meet for six hours, but wound up sleeping together and then going out for breakfast in the morning. Is this bad? I had an amazing time with her, but I feel like the lines are blurring a bit.
...but there are more unhappy p4p stories that start this way than happy ones.
Sometimes a guy gets pressured for more money by a girl. Sometimes a guy falls in love, and a girl doesn't. Sometimes (less frequently) a girl falls in love and a guy doesn't. Sometimes a guy or a girl gives out too much information and regrets it.
Personally, this is pure p4p for me. No drama, ever. I just like sleeping around, and pay for the privilege of not having to disclose personal info or make waffles the next morning or meet her folks.
If you're looking for more, p4p generally isn't the place to find it. IMO
Sounds like the gal made enough the first time to just hang a bit as she had no other clients. Then she hooked you with the 6 hour gig (hopefully you worked out a discount on that one LOL) and she had no other clients to see so slept over.
Just don't let her get you into a position of having to be the "guy" that pays her rent, phone and car payments when they are late. As long as YOU can just up and walk away when that crap starts, then have fun with it for now.
Posted By: awsnap
A few weeks ago I booked a provider for two hours, and we wound up hanging out for almost five. I saw her again the week after - we arranged to meet for six hours, but wound up sleeping together and then going out for breakfast in the morning. Is this bad? I had an amazing time with her, but I feel like the lines are blurring a bit.
First of all, if you decide to write a review for her, never include how she treated you extra special (two hours turning into almost five, six hours into overnight plus breakfast, etc) because other clients may expect that if they read your review.
It appears that you both really enjoy each other and she just wants to spend more time with you. So long as you don't expect her to treat you this way each meeting you have, I think your relationship with her should be fine. It's still a p4p relationship and as long as there's money involved, she'll still be willing to see you -- the plus side being that she enjoys seeing you.
Posted By: awsnap
A few weeks ago I booked a provider for two hours, and we wound up hanging out for almost five. I saw her again the week after - we arranged to meet for six hours, but wound up sleeping together and then going out for breakfast in the morning. Is this bad? I had an amazing time with her, but I feel like the lines are blurring a bit.
Too often, I see reviews where the guy is bragging about the extra time he got. IMHO, that should never be mentioned in a review. As you said, others will expect it also. Any of you reviewers it you read this post and businesses above, remember that.
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