Newbie - FAQ

How to get reference/pass screening?
tuscl99 14 Reviews 1852 reads
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1 / 14

I'm new to this and hoping someone can help.  Couple of time when I try to get started by calling one of the agency provide, but so far I'm can't seem to pass their screening.  They can't seem to verify me as there are multiple people with the same name.  I did a google search of myself and I can find myself on beenverified.com but I'm not in the database that the agency is using.  I'm just a normal guy who looking for a good time with no string attached. Any ideas?

harborview 10 Reviews 599 reads
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2 / 14

They'll ask for info, give them what you can.  Lots of retired & self employed hobby.  There are alternative screening if some Gals choose to use them.  One of my first, wanted my home phone...  not to call but did reverse look up & cross referanced with what I'd told her.  I still see her when I'm in her area.  It depends on the Gal.  This isn't Match dot com...  you're just looking for a bit of play time.  Keep looking until you find one who's interested.

tuscl99 14 Reviews 525 reads
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3 / 14

I have tried several indies and most of them are bait and switch.  I just want something that is what's advertised.  I don't have a problem with providing the info needed.  I even offer for them to call company number and verify my employment with my manager...

tuscl99 14 Reviews 451 reads
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5 / 14

No, that is not correct. I provided all the info they asked like full name, phone number , location, work company. I just wonder what services do they use to perform the check. Since I'm new I'm sure I won't be in most places.

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 481 reads
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6 / 14

part of screening you fall short on.
See, even If you could pass the employment verification be it legitimately or circumventing another way, there are many many other aspects that needs to add up and yours looks down right sketchy at best.
That being said, You'll be hard pressed to find a provider that screens to see you,

So, wtf are u up too!

clarence37 37 Reviews 491 reads
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7 / 14

When a veteran suggests that you contact an "Indie", he doesn't mean a backpage girl who claims she doesn't have a pimp. He's talking about seeking out an independent provider who is well-reviewed here on TER.

Other than that, shell out a few bucks and join a verification site like date-check. Problem solved.

-- Modified on 1/23/2013 11:32:57 PM

tuscl99 14 Reviews 412 reads
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8 / 14

I wish they tell me what the sketchy thing is as I know I'm as clean as I'm successful at what I do.  As I said, I'm a newbie at this and all I'm looking for some fun with a beautiful lady without the drama of a relationship.  Base on what I have read, the best bet is going through an agency as they have standards, rules and discretion that I like.  If it not meant to be then I guess I stick with having fun at my favorite strip club.

crazyshit 386 reads
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9 / 14

It might very well be that you have to give up some work info, so be prepared for that.

In the end, do what you feel comfortable, but no more.  There are plenty of girls out there.

tuscl99 14 Reviews 489 reads
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10 / 14

Yes, I'm off backpage after bailing my a first few attempts.  Which is why I'm looking into agency.  Agency seem to have standards and ladies that is mostly true to their pics.  Yeah, I misunderstood what he meant by "indie"...I am a newbie at this and terminology still lacking.  I did saw the date-check thing for the Gold Club agency which I'm still reading up on.  Someone also mention Perferred411.  Any suggestion as to which is better?

tuscl99 14 Reviews 375 reads
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11 / 14

Thanks crazyshit.  I know there are plenty out there. Just wanted the dependibility along with it. I probably going to try date- check to see if it worth it.

Posted By: crazyshit
It might very well be that you have to give up some work info, so be prepared for that.

In the end, do what you feel comfortable, but no more.  There are plenty of girls out there.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 450 reads
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12 / 14

Check out this link to a former discussion of p411 vs date-check. This topic does come up a lot. this is just one of many threads on the topic.

tuscl99 14 Reviews 405 reads
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13 / 14

Thanks...Seem like preferred411 are more well like than DC.  Preferred411 website does seem to be better organized from visiting both.

crazyshit 420 reads
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14 / 14

All I can say is that some girls are gonna be discreet, and others are ones I would never trust with my information.

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