Need some advice from other hobbyists:i cant get approved to see providers due to out-of-date provider refernces.I am patially-disabled due to TBI and head injury,with spinal cord damage ,from training accident while in military.So,i am self-employed and have no real work references plus no recent provider references to list on screening applications.Have all necessary financials and am pretty much self-mobile now but cant "get my foot (or anything else)back in the door"after prolonged absence from the scene.Anyone have any advice?

Like Date Check and P411, or Room Service in the Chicago area.

That is usually your best bet.

One just has to be up front about lack of references.  Tell the truth.  You are not on a Match web site...  you just want a date.  You might have to settle for other than your first choice.  You will have to give alternate screening info until she feels comfortable seeing you.