Hey all, got a question from a newbie to the hobby.  I've had my eye on a lady posting ads on a site, but she didn't specifically list her services.  Just gave rates and phone number.  I called her inquiring about an appointment and I also asked what services she offered.  She said it was a massage session.  Should I take that as the truth or assume she was just being cautious?  She doesn't have a site or any reviews I can find.  Thanks

unless you're in the mood to TOFTT.  She may be being cautious, but most providers at least advertise some level of service you can expect.

If the site is Craig's List, you may want to review some of the words of wisdom on the Legal and Newbie boards.  Do a search.



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Definitely being cautious, although there are "massage only" providers.  Regardless, a provider will not discuss money or services over the phone or e-mail.  If you want to know what exactly she offers, read her reviews on TER, rather than try to discuss it with her.  And if she doesn't have a site or reviews, find a provider that does have them.  That way, you reduce your chance of not getting what you're looking for, or worse, getting ripped off.

If all you know about her is a non-specific ad, no reviews, no info on her site (does she even have a site?), and she is only describing your potential encounter as a massage session!!!  These are all HUGE red flags!!!

This is a good question and since she doesn't know you - she could think that this is a trap! On the other hand - it could be a trap for you! If she is offering a massage - usually they state FBSM (which also means a hand job comes with the package) but nothing else - no FS or GFE! Most will state things in a way that will peak your interest! But I have found - if no reviews and no good info - then why go there! The thing is - we sometimes think with our penis instead of our brain - take the advice and maybe look somewhere else!