I am older than most clients.  And  not experienced in this country's ways.  I understand that in DC a man maybe arrested, etc. for visiting a provider. Is that just a matter of bad luck, of statistics?
 E.g., if she lives in a big apartment house, the guard in the lobby wants you to sign a visitors' book. Is it O.K. to sign with a nonexistent name?
 I hear "they" can confiscate your car, if you came by car.

Best way to avoid stings - stay home and play all alone. Giggle.  

OK, since that's no fun... it's OK to sign whatever you want.  I've never heard of a building asking for ID if they do, leave.

In some places they can take your car.

Best to search the TER Legal forum for keywords like sting, arrest, etc.

And getting in trouble is mostly bad luck, and doing something dumb.  If it looks too good to be true, it is.

Have fun, play safe,
TS Jamie

The first and most important rule is to stick to well reviewed providers that you can find on TER and similar sites.

Beyond that, keep your eyes and ears open to local LE activities that are often discussed on the local boards here and also your local newspaper.

If anything about an appointment looks suspicious: the provider tries to get you to discuss sex and/or money on the phone or email, you see a lot of Ford Crown Vics parked around the meeting area, an offer that look to good to be true, these could be tip offs that LE is about to make a bust.  Trust your senses and call off the mission.

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well if you feel indifferent about going to see her,
then suggest that you book a hotel room instead

Unexpected, informative, to the point.  Thanks.

(N.B. Are expressions of thanks like this unwanted. considered pointless cluttering up of the forum?)