there's a girl on a website that i want to "get to know better", but under "services offered" onher webpage, she lists "escort".  how do i go about asking what she does, daty, bbbj, dog, cim, etc?  not really looking to pay $300 for an hours worth of someone just hanging out with me... THAT i can get for free, lol!

Your best bet is to purchase a VIP membership here,read her reviews {if any} and do your homework on the lady.Then,hopefully you'll already know what she'll provide you without having to ask her.Failing that,you could always post a link to her website,on one of the regional boards,to find out any info on her from the other guys who've seen her.Good luck!

With a VIP membership, you can PM other hobbyists and ask (assuming she has reviews here on TER).

You will find a wealth of information on most established Providers.  I find the research can be a lot of fun and for me anyway is part of the excitement of it all.  Keep in mind, just what services are provided may depend a lot on you and some may not be as willing to provide a certain service on your first meeting as she will later on.

Post any specific sexual acts on her website or any advertisement. Asking her over the phone or by e-mail would not be a wise move either. As others have already stated, you just gotta do your homework.

to not post any sexual services on my site. This decreases any legal mix up. But in email exchange, I say something like my rate is all inclusive. And on my site I make my services implicit rather than explicit. Smart guys get the hint. Look for something on her site and send her an email and try to read between the lines

The provider is going to be intentionally vague about what she will do and not do. You have to learn the code words (read the glossary) and then hopefully find reviews of her while translating code into services provided.

When looking at the ads themselves, I look for "GFE" as a hint that she will do more than just a striptease or a HJ. But it is no guarantee (nothing's a guarantee in this business).

It's very important to establish a rapport with somebody you can trust and that they can trust you. If you haven't met before, both of you are taking a risk so be honest, respectful and polite with her and she'll have her way of letting you know if she'll do what you are looking for.

You are on an escort review site and you ask that question? Check for reviews of the lady, if there are none then take a chance if you are driven to. If you do take a chance, you will find upsellers and Ripoff artists most of the time. If you do take a chance, I suggest that you try a lady that offer incall in public accomodations. If she opens the door and is not the lady from pictures, use that as the first and only sign that you need to walk away.

And one of the unfortunate outcomes is that it is attracting it's share of crooks. I have noticed that ads on escort malls mention all of the code words that we use to get a feel for service quality, when the ladies with most of those ads get a review they are rated as ripoffs or crass upsellers. The only sure way to know whether a lady is legit is for her to have several consistent reviews from a reputable escort review site. I takes chances on beautiful newbie escorts occasionally, but I do that knowing that for every diamond in the rough that I find, I will find five that I need to walk away from.

Its what reviews are for, it states what we do and dont do. as well , ter isnt the only outlet for reviews/ can check around on other review sites and see if your girl is listed there as well. Most often all her reviews are on her site anyhow. If ya cant read the juicy stuff. well, 19.95 is a sure way of saving yourself hundreds of dollars in the long run

....."I am in no way soliciting for prostitution nor do I ever get paid for sexual acts.
However, as a US Citizen and a consenting adult, whatever I may decide to do with another consenting adult is my right and a freedom that I exercise often. I do not however, get compensated in any manner for any sex act that I may ever be involved in..."

Then, she will probably be as careful with your safety as she is her own..... check her reviews ! Two or three pages of reviews can't steer you wrong. Plus, you always have the option of PM-ing any reviewer and fellow hobbyist to ask his thoughts....

Happy Hobbying  Know your provider (*and her reputation*)   kisses ~Tori