I don't know if you are asking how to go about asking to arrange a paid session or asking for "off the clock" time or something else.

i  find myself partying pretty hard the nights I am on this site...how do I ask escorts if they want to party as well?

Probably more a matter of asking the right (wrong) escort, not so much the way you ask it. Sorry, I can't help you on how to find an escort who "parties".

Anybody who parties will know what you mean if you ask if they party. If they party in more than one way, or you do too, and they sound confused as to which meaning you meant, just be specific. The worst that will happen is she says No and hangs up on you

Seems like a good way to get her to hang up even if she does party.

I'm sure most do, perhaps your handel gives a little hint, to your recreational activities. A lot of ladies here are snowers at least(part time), hey let's face it their job is a lot of work. Just remeber who you ask and how, like every thing else here.

Just politely arrange to meet, go through the procedures like filling out the form on her site, the whole nine. This way you are not offending her with some off handed comment.

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If you see a girl a lot and are cool with her, eventually you will feel comfortable asking if she wants to do something on the side, like hitting a party or strip club or whatever. In fact a couple times in Eugene I even had some regular girls suggest this to ME. Loose laws regarding strip clubs in Oregon. You dont need a license and many times I've seen a regular girl get up on stage and dance for fun. Many time they were hotter than any of the pro dancers working that night.

Do NOT ask for free escort sessions if you do start hanging out with her. Thats just rude and cheap and may screw things up between you two.
In fact if you do start seeing her outside of the business it may be time to evaluate your friendship. Perhaps you should not be sleeping with her anymore and just treat her as a regular female friend to happens to be an escort.

The term "party" typically denotes the use of cocain, crack, or large amounts of alcohol... and term "party favor" explicitly implies DRUGS.  

Many escorts strickly adhere to the old adage- "Smart criminals only commit one crime at a time!" Look at the facts- a prostitution charge is typically a misdominer, while a possesion charge is often a felony!

Another dose of reality- excessively chatty, sweaty, hyper-sexual, men who have consumed substances that make their PENISES NOT WORK PROPERLY but yet INSIST on trying and trying and trying... often running WAY over time...??  These are NOT desirable clients!

In conclusion, most providers that I know refuse to host OR visit people who are intoxicated. It's frankly too much of a liability on MANY fronts.

But as always, Your Mileage May Vary!  Feel free to ask away...but don't be surprised if you hear and sudden click and then a dial tone.. OR ELSE, find yourself in a super scketchy situation! :-S

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PS. Sorry to everyone for all the TYPOS in my previous post!

Drugs & excessive use of ANY mood altering chemical has no place in a session. It amazes me how guys think they're a super stud, or seductress while under the influence. I call it the "monumental mind-fuck" No one, male or female becomes a sex god/goddess when they're high or sloppy drunk.

The words of wisdom found on your reply are surpassed only by your good looks. I hear this from provides frequently, meaning how turned off they are by a guy who either asks about drug use or just pulls their goodies out and begins his use. I think it is a maturity level that always leads to issues in all relationships or business deals. I am sure there are providers who wouldn't mind and some may actually enjoy the "party" aspect but those issues sound be sorted out beforehand with simple discussion.
Great reply CGL.

I know why I enjoy this so much.  Can't beat chasing hot pussy after you turn the half-century mark.  LOL