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Is it normal for a provider to give out location
MEGAGEM2 2013 reads
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1 / 14
Is it normal for a provider to give out location

A week before the appointment?

jeffdogger 9 Reviews 409 reads
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2 / 14
How specific was the description? (eom)


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swimtrekr 59 Reviews 470 reads
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3 / 14
No, unless she's seen you before.

Usually they will use the 2-call method the day of the appt. to give you the location.  If she has seen you before, it's not abnormal to tell you where she is, she knows you.

Swim

JackDunphy 396 reads
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4 / 14
Is this a well reviewed and oft reviewed gal?

You are describing a rookie provider mistake. Did she give you the name and exact location of her hotel/incall? This would be very odd for an experienced girl to do, unless you are buds, and close buds at that.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 370 reads
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5 / 14
I usually request the general area of the incall a few days . . .

prior to the encounter to help with judging travel time.  The exact location is not given until the night before and the room number 5 minutes prior (the two call system).

cocktail-party 353 reads
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6 / 14
Not typical, but not necessarily a red flag

I've received hotel info (sans room #) days, even a week in advance from some well-established providers. In these cases I also received the room number on the day of, hours prior to the appointment. Maybe I just screened well, but in these instances the ladies trusted that I would be a gentleman and wouldn't show up early or otherwise cause them grief.

impposter 49 Reviews 446 reads
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7 / 14
Who gets their room number a week in advance??

Depending on the city, I wouldn't worry too much about getting the address or hotel a week in advance.  It gets you to the correct general area and fills you with confidence: "She gave me the location a whole week in advance!  She must really like me!"  It might be a "fake" address but close to the planned location.  In big cities, the Marriot is across the street from the Hiatt and right next to the Sheraton.  In SOME cities, the Marriot is right next to the OTHER Marriot! :-)  

Even the apartment building addresses are sometimes fake for first-timers.  They want to get a look at you from across the street or next door or close by.  Then you call and get the real address.

Likewise, the room number.  Who knows their room number a week in advance.  Maybe the 25th Anniversary couple who requested the exact same hotel room they had 25 years ago.  Or the President.  Schlubs like me?  I take what they give me when I get there
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MEGAGEM2 335 reads
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8 / 14
Re: Is this a well reviewed and oft reviewed gal?

She gave me the name of the hotel and the address, it is a decent hotel if that helps the situation. She isn't a rookie by any means, supposedly top 10 provider in the area. THis will actually be my first visit, so we are far from buds.

MEGAGEM2 406 reads
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9 / 14
Re: How specific was the description? (eom)

Hotel name and address, no room number

cocktail-party 287 reads
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10 / 14
In all likelihood, you're good to go. She's just really comfortable with the biz. -e-


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impposter 49 Reviews 403 reads
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11 / 14
How many hotels? How many rooms?

I am NOT suggesting that you throw caution to the wind, but ...

Is this a big city with other hotels nearby?  It might be a "fake" hotel to get you to the correct general area.  If she had said, "the Train Station" (or the Famous Colossal Statue) you would find it easily but you know you're not actually going to get it on at the station (or on the Statue) but at a nearby hotel.

Is this a big hotel or a Motel-6?  A small place with 10 or 20 rooms is a lot different than a big hotel which can easily have over a thousand rooms. It is not too risky to give out the REAL hotel if finding her without more info would take all day, knocking on every door.  Of course, once you have the room number (day of, 5 minutes before) you not only know what floor she is on but the ACTUAL ROOM NUMBER!

See my post below about getting room numbers in advance.

ale_2373 2 Reviews 250 reads
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12 / 14
Re: Who gets their room number a week in advance??

That's true I never got the room the number or location a week in advance. You should be very careful. Agencies normally give the location in the morning of your appointment.

MegaGem23 241 reads
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13 / 14
Re: How many hotels? How many rooms?

well she gave me the hotel name and it's address if that helps. she's well reviewed if that helps as well 😔

impposter 49 Reviews 311 reads
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14 / 14
Sometimes, an address is just a landmark

I repeat myself.  A hotel name and a hotel address A WEEK IN ADVANCE is less important than her review history and TER presence.  Assuming a medium to large city, ...  

She could have pre-booked her room(s) anywhere she wants and not have to tell you the EXACT location.  All anyone meeting her needs to know that far in advance is a general location so they know how to get there and how much time they need to get to their meeting place.  So if you park your car in hotel garage A and find out she's in hotel B, what are you going to do: (a) walk across the street or (b) move your car hotel garage B?  By the way ... many would recommend against parking in the hotel garages, but that's another newbie FAQ.  

I repeat myself.  A hotel name and a hotel address A WEEK IN ADVANCE is less important than her review history and TER presence.  
Posted By: MegaGem23
well she gave me the hotel name and it's address if that helps. she's well reviewed if that helps as well 😔
Let us know how things go.

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