Let's say I'm a 60 year old male who is overweight, very unattrative, and looking to get laid-this is a hypothetical situaton, and I'm guessing a common one. I just can't see how a young, gorgeous girl will want to kiss me, perform oral, and let me have intercourse with her. Do they just have an extraordinary ability to overlook defects, and focus on giving a great performance? If a 75 year old lady wanted me to kiss her and have sex with her, I might consider it for no less than $100,000, which is tremendously higher than most escorts are charging. I can see that someone hard pressed for money would be apt to consider screwing ugly men for money, but how do these women make it look like they are not repulsed by what they are doing? Can someone enlighten me on what is going on here? Thanks.

I am not a young, georgous provider but I can tell you that I personally believe all men are beautiful no matter his age or body type.

There are some like that. There was a recent post about a ladies ad where she mentioned that the guy must be fit.

Some ladies just love men. Maybe it's a psychological attribute (maybe a defect, but I can't judge that), maybe she didn't have a father around... why do you hobby?

Women (or men) provide for a lot of reasons, just as men see providers for a lot of reasons.

Some ladies, I am sure, can overlook a lot as long as the envelope is full. Maybe they get off on the taboo nature of P4P sex. I don't know or care, as long as she does it of her own free will.

You could certainly catalog all the good & bad aspects of P4P, for the ladies, but that would never tell you the whole story.

I would never call this easy money, but it's probably good money for the time involved, and if she gets some pleasure from it, the better.

You also have to look at the ladies who do this full-time versus as a second job.

There are no concrete answers for this.

Attitude, hygeine and respect will get you a lot farther with most providers than looks.I would much rather see an older, not so handsome gentleman, who appreciates my time, shows some respect, has a sense of humor and knows how to properly clean himself, than to see a young, hot stud who has no clue how to treat or please a woman and acts like he is doing me a favor by scheduling an appointment.

make it a lot easier on the ladies.

There's a reason so many site have FAQ pages on how to do things.

Many here on TER want to be successful, and that means getting a good review from every session.

A few ladies need something to take the edge off. Who I am to say that having a drink or two isn't a good way to get through the day?

Some enjoy meeting new people and sharing their stories.

If you stay in this long enough you might meet some that really don't like it, they usually aren't around for long.

I don't ask any deep questions. I just bring something extra in the hope that I'll want to give her a tip on the way out the door.

First, a great many hobbyists are NOT "Overweight or unattractive". You would be very surprised at how many guys are in excellent shape and would be considered very good looking gentleman by any group of women. Do not make a correlation between paying for sex and the physical appearance of a man. There are many many reasons why men seek the company of escorts (not getting sex with the spouse, easier than an affair, want someone to talk to, need a date for the company function, want company at dinner on a business trip, etc.). Low on that list is the guy seeking an escort because he can't get laid in the civilian world due to his physical looks.

Now, if a provider does encounter a gentleman who she does not find attractive in the least, the lady will learn quickly how to make that man feel like a king. It is a skill that a good provider has cultivated and perfected. As others have stated, if you are polite and professional throughout the entire process, respect the wishes of the lady at all times have good overall hygiene, that is 99.99% of the battle. How you look will not even come into play.

..."As others have stated, if you are polite and professional throughout the entire process, respect the wishes of the lady at all times have good overall hygiene, that is 99.99% of the battle. How you look will not even come into play."...

That's it in a nutshell.

But I do have to say that "a great many" of my clients are not attractive and not in good shape...85% in my estimation. Makes no difference to me as long as the above and the envelop are in place...I have no problem making them feel fabulous.

What I like in this world of P4P is of no consequence... you are here to see me and I am here for the money.

"... you are here to see me and I am here for the money."

Literbike:  Telling it like it is since ... uh ... since she's been hanging around TER I guess.

Keep it up!

Hey you...how the heck are you?

I do tend to tell it like it is, however it does not mean I don't have some fun at the same time. I am being honest about my sole motivation for doing this. I can get good sex whenever I want with my choice of partner/s.

I would not trade my regs for anything though..a great group of guys...

I am fine.  Fine, but still dabbling in my never-ending quest to figure out who is "The Woman Behind the 'Bike."  Or, perhaps more properly, "The Woman ON the 'Bike."



Did you notice our girl MacDaddy seems to have made another appearance (as MD2010)?

Not sure if I am more intrigued with having her back or more concerned for her well-being.

Take care and keep on keeping it real.

You Sir are a sweetheart. I am glad she(macdaddy) is back too. We both speak the truth...mine is delivered differently...hers, is of course a lot more entertaining and ruffles far more feathers than mine do. I could go her route but have decided not to...you get the "good girl" on here.

Hope she is OK...not really sure what the issue is except that she seems to greatly dislike some of her clients. Heck we all have had some of those in our time. Hope she is doing well in general.

but I can tell you what ladies I know have told me.

They say that they find at least one attractive thing about each client...

maybe it is his looks, or his sense of humour, or his intelligence, or personality, or...
but they do find, at least, one thing that they find attractive, and if they can't find anything attractive about the client? those are the ones they don't see again.

Men are much more visual than women (a bunch of studies have been done on this) so for a man sense of humour, personality, etc. is less likely to make him find a woman attractive, but women are a bit more fluid in what attracts them which is what can allow them to do this type of work and not have to charge $100,000 for it.


Of course I am very unattractive, so the ladies just tell me they are straight, or that we are "friends" so they can't see me professionally...