A couple of weeks ago I contact a girl on the Eros board. I had not started hobbying and I got no reply. Since then I have been with several lovely ladies and I decided to reach out to her again today letting her know I was still interested, I had been with several ladies and when I would be available. I also asked if she has any reviews or something else I could use to verify her. She just replied that she would love to meet me and when. I then basically repeated my request.
She is only on Eros. Tineye came back with no hits. I have not seen her on on any other board (p411, BP or CV). She has no TER reviews (I am a VIP). I know I really should just walk away as there are so many other ladies I have yet to meet but she just has this hold over me. In fact, she is the entire reason I got into this hobby. Her pictures do have nudity if that makes a difference.
So any advice to protecting myself if I meet her? Or should I just walk away?
You can only minimize the risk. I've toftt a number of times. With varying degrees of success. You've made a good move by using tineye and I assume you've googled the ph # and the eros ad is all that comes up concerning hobby activity. Have you asked on the local ter board if anyone is familiar with her? I usally have a few email or text exchanges with the lady. The back and forth communication gives me a feel for her, also the consistancy of answers is important. I will onlydo incall when I'm toftt, never outcall. If it gets to the point where I set a date with the lady, I always ask for the part of town she's in and the major cross streets. I'll use google maps and check the neighborhood of the incall, if it's in a nice area of town, that's always a plus. In a bad part of town, I've been known to call or email back and cancel right away. And btw, there's nothing wrong with writing the second review of the lady! Good luck!
I can compare TOFTT to casino gambling. If your not prepared to lose more then win you shouldn't try it. To safely do it I would search for Scoed's posts on researching and screening the ladies. There is a lot of research you can do to minimize the risks.
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A couple of weeks ago I contact a girl on the Eros board. I had not started hobbying and I got no reply. Since then I have been with several lovely ladies and I decided to reach out to her again today letting her know I was still interested, I had been with several ladies and when I would be available. I also asked if she has any reviews or something else I could use to verify her. She just replied that she would love to meet me and when. I then basically repeated my request.
She is only on Eros. Tineye came back with no hits. I have not seen her on on any other board (p411, BP or CV). She has no TER reviews (I am a VIP). I know I really should just walk away as there are so many other ladies I have yet to meet but she just has this hold over me. In fact, she is the entire reason I got into this hobby. Her pictures do have nudity if that makes a difference.
So any advice to protecting myself if I meet her? Or should I just walk away?
Although my initial search only showed her on Eros (she is a VIP) subsequent search has her on two other sites.
We spoke briefly. She wasn't much for conversation. She said she was located in an area that has a lot of providers, near the downtown area of the city. She agreed to meet me in public first and allowed me to pick the location, a local restaurant.
I don't get the feeling she is trying to control the situation and she was even willing to do an outcall if I wanted (but I wanted incall). It seems relatively safe from most scams but I do realize the risk is still high. I know it sounds silly but I am willing to risk a ROB or even a less than GFE for an opportunity with her.
I did previously ask on the regional boards if anyone saw her but did not get any positive responses.
So with all that said, if I decide to move forward (our meeting is tomorrow) any suggestions what I am at most risk of encountering? I think I am relatively safe from LE, B&S and ROB (obviously not 100% safe) but what else?
I am really on the fence about this one. One of the reasons for moving forward now is that my hobbying opportunity might come to a stop for a while on Monday.
Every girl needs a start somewhere. God knows I appreciate the first guy who took a chance on me. It took months for me to break in.( I'm still not in all the way) However her resistance to talking to you may be a flag. I know everyone is different but I was willing to do whatever it took to earn the trust of someone that is in the hobby and could get me into places like TER. On the flip side I would NEVER see someone without references. Good Luck.
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