It's called the Newbie board. I'm sure your thread is appropriate here on the General Board, but the Newbie board is definitely useful for Newbies in your situation. We also have transsexual boards, regional boards as it pertains to a specific city, and plenty of other boards.

Anyhow, I'll try to answer some of your questions. Why are providers declining their services for you? What types of questions are you asking them? Do you negotiate lower rates with them? Do they turn you down when you arrived at their incall or hotel?

Please give specific examples of your experience. Start from the initial encounter. Did you write an email or have a phone conversation. Where did you see her ad, was it BackPage, Eros, the regional boards, CityVibe, or other? State what you said to the provider. When you show up, what did you say to her.

I had a provider told me she turned down a client because he was too young. If you can answer these questions, and be specific as possible, then maybe we can assist you. Until then, good luck with booking with a provider.

"12th precinct" shows up.

Ok joking aside, this post may get moved to the newbie board. Whether it does or doesn't you should check out the newbie board anyway. Read back the last 10 pages or so there (more if you can) Do a search, using the search feature at the top of the page for specific topics. (change the date range from 30 days to 300 or more) Also read the "self help center" which can be found at the top of any discussion board page by the life preserver. Doing these things will probably answer your questions. If you have more after doing all that, ask on the newbie board.

Now throwing some wild guesses out (since you didn't give us a context):
1) you are asking them questions which are plainly answered on their webpages, ads, and or reviews.
2) you are young and contacting providers who plainly say they only see clients over a certain age.
3) you are not giving them proper screening information
4) you are discussing sex and money in initial conversation
5) your phone number or email pulls up a red flag for them when they google it

great advice.  I will add, number one, read the entire self help center, and two, get VIP membership here.  Since we don't know where you are finding these providers (what site), it's hard to say more,  However, if they do not have reviews, move on.  Join one or more of the verification sites.  Preferred411 gives providers an option to indicate if they are newbie friendly, which is what you should look for.

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