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How about a playful way?

rondarae 15969 reads

posted 22 years ago

Tell her you want the Bill Clinton special.

jargo22 years ago19336 reads

Polite way of asking?

I am a strip club afficionado who is dipping his toe into the hobby. I'm not looking for FS but willing to pay full price and will not be looking to negotiate. I'm looking for some fun mutual cuddling and massaging while receiving a CBJ. I've purchased a VIP and did a lot of research. A lot of the ladies that I am considering are very enthusiastic and it all leads to FS very quickly according to the juicy details. What is a polite way to guide/request a lady to stop from giving me FS and to cover me up for the oral part without insulting her or making her fear I am LE? Is this even possible or should I just not take this dip?

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HootOwl22 years ago17562 reads

Be straigthforward...

I think the women will appreciate your being straightforward; different guys want different things. Be very direct; don't "beat around the bush" [no pun intended].

-Hoot.

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rondarae22 years ago20687 reads

Absolutely straight forward.

Bring a Trogan red pack, ask with a smile. Would work on me.

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js_0766322 years ago17368 reads

Re:Absolutely straight forward.

A better alternative to Trojan Reds are flavored condoms.

Strawberry & chocolate seem to be the favorites. Bananna may be the most... uhhhh.... ahhh... ummmm... appropriate flavor(?) but is generally regarded as too sweet.

I recommend you bring a selection of different flavors, hold them up and ask with a smile "what flavor do you like?".

Many providers appreciate that you went the extra mile for them.

The brand I use are made by Trustex. You can get them at novelty stores and on the web. Try www.condomcountry.com, search by type and click on "flavored". See below.

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aquatic22 years ago18343 reads

Re:Polite way of asking?

jargo, after all the preliminaries have been taken care of, and BOTH of you are comfortable, just let her know what kind of services you're interested in. I'm pretty sure she'll gladly accomodate you. Enjoy.

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fortitude22 years ago15550 reads

Just tell her what you want.

With only one exception, no provider I know would in any way object to handling your request. Actually, providers love clients like you because you know what you want and are not, I don't think, grotesquely demanding. Just chose a gal that has alot of GFE-type reviews. They're the ones that like to cuddle and massage. If you are in the NY area and want some suggestions, you can PM me and I'll try to help.

Someone else answering your post recommended bringing along some Trojan reds. Those are unlubricated and used for CBJ. A very good recommendation.

F.

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magiost22 years ago24907 reads

Re:Polite way of asking?

There's nothing wrong or strange with what you are asking. Tell the truth, be polite, clean and respectful and there won't be any problem. Since you are VIP, you can select a lady who likes to cuddle by looking at the reviews. It usually leads to FS quickly because that's what most hobbyists are interested in.

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rondarae22 years ago15970 reads

How about a playful way?

Tell her you want the Bill Clinton special.

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SweetJaclyn22 years ago17753 reads

Re:How about a playful way?

That's cute!!!!! And the funny thing is, Ronda, it would work!!!

I wouldn't mind doing that!!! Not only that, but I love a man to cuddle with and I think the mutual massage thing is another awesome quality....

Just be up front and honest, but don't ask anything initially over the phone or through e-mail because it could be offensive. Once you're with the provider and you're both "comfortable," then just tell her what you want in a polite and gentle manner. Everything should be fine. I do agree with everyone else... Seek out the GFE types. If you're in Atlanta or headed our way, you're more than welcome to read my reviews and see if I'm your cup of tea... I'd love to meet you!!!

Jaclyn