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How did you manage to set an appointment without a time? Without an agreement on a time there really isn't a confirmed appointment so I would just shrug it off and try somebody else. July is pretty far off so maybe she is only replying to e-mails for closer appointments only.

Jack_Inhoff1971 reads

So, I set up a date for July through p411.  Once the date was set, I sent an email through p411 asking if she wanted to set a specific time of our meeting right now or wait till it gets closer to the date. That was exactly two days ago and I didn't hear back from her. It indicated she read the message.  Well, I sent her an email this morning to follow up and again ask about the time. That was this morning. It's now the evening and it indicated that she read my message....and still no response.  

What do I do now?  Do I wait a few more days and send her another message? I don't want to come off as a pest and/or stalker, but all I'm asking for is whether she wants to set a time now or later.  Am I wrong to expect this email to be answered?  Am I being too pushy? If I don't hear back from her about this, do I assume that the appointment is cancelled?  What do I do now?  Maybe I'm being a jerk. It wouldn't be the first time.  

Feedback from both hobbyists and providers would be welcome.  Thanks.

TalkToTrees545 reads

should be the most courteous thing the provider can do. The fact the messages have been read is a good indicator that she can respond with some like, "Give me a few days and I'll get back to you."

Only takes a minute or two type that response up and hit send. There shouldn't be any excuse for her not to respond to you especially if the message has been read.

Having said all of that... if she doesn't respond by the weekend... move onto the next one. No need for you to waste any more of your time. You can start searching for another potential encounter.

The Forest Waits

Posted By: Jack_Inhoff
So, I set up a date for July through p411.  Once the date was set, I sent an email through p411 asking if she wanted to set a specific time of our meeting right now or wait till it gets closer to the date. That was exactly two days ago and I didn't hear back from her. It indicated she read the message.  Well, I sent her an email this morning to follow up and again ask about the time. That was this morning. It's now the evening and it indicated that she read my message....and still no response.    
   
 What do I do now?  Do I wait a few more days and send her another message? I don't want to come off as a pest and/or stalker, but all I'm asking for is whether she wants to set a time now or later.  Am I wrong to expect this email to be answered?  Am I being too pushy? If I don't hear back from her about this, do I assume that the appointment is cancelled?  What do I do now?  Maybe I'm being a jerk. It wouldn't be the first time.  
   
 Feedback from both hobbyists and providers would be welcome.  Thanks.

whether I'm looking for an incall or outcall.  Not sure how you were able to set a date without specifying a time.  Besides, July is at least 6 weeks away.

How did you manage to set an appointment without a time? Without an agreement on a time there really isn't a confirmed appointment so I would just shrug it off and try somebody else. July is pretty far off so maybe she is only replying to e-mails for closer appointments only.

I wouldn't email her again for at least 3 or 4 days, or even longer.
Just relax about it.
On the otherhand, since she hasn't gotten back to you confirming a time, you should feel completely free to pursue other options if you want.
But yeah, if you keep emailing her this far out too much, it might start to feel like pestering to her.
You need to know, some ladies are much much better at responding in a timely manner - but this far out, it really doesn't matter too much, so you might as well relax about it IMO.

I hate going on another site to read messages that can be sent directly & makes it feel more personal. If she did not respond I would assume she is busy.  It only takes a minute to respond with yes were still on.  Some people have no professional courtesy, or good communication skills this is where a great provider shines because they are tops prior to the date, and during the encounter.

so don't sweat anything yet.

Give her a few days to get back to you - there's plenty of time till July.

If nothing after 3 days, send another email.  If that one gets ignored, then she's not the gal for you.  Send her one last one saying that you are cancelling and then start anew.

And do make dates for specific days, times, and, durations.

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