I'll be meeting someone for the first time (FINALLY!!) somewhat soon, but there's been a couple of questions that've been in my mind.  Apologies if said questions are utterly retarded or have been covered already by older threads.

1)  I've read in the NM and some of the threads here that the girls like it when we shave/trim downstairs.
How, exactly, does one shave a scrotum (if that's really necessary)?  

2) I've also been wondering what sort of covers to bring (ribbed or un-ribbed, etc.).  I THINK for this particular chick it may be all right to ask beforehand.  She sounded pretty laid back when she actually returned my call (thank her a million times!).  

But other girls often state that "inappropriate" comments or questions would get you the axe.  How would I figure out what other girls like (such as what kind of covers they prefer) if they seem "prudish"? (Not that they're REALLY prudish but you know....it sounds like they really don't like any explicit talk before 1st meetings.)

1) Don't know because I'm natural.
2) Be prepared by bringing something you like (ultra thin or whatever) in a sealed package.  Note, most ladies prefer to use their own condoms.

I trim down stairs, but not shave much.  I lather with soap in the shower & lightly follow the part with a razor.  You can always re-soap.  

Normally, the lady provides the condoms.  Though it's not a bad idea to have some of your own, in case one needs replacing...  hell of a time to run to the store!
I do bring my prefered cover because I have a preferance.  Always in sealed packages, in date & properly stored...  I place them on the bedside table & excuse myself to the bathroom for a moment to wash my hands.  The lady has the right to inspect mine & refuse to use them though it's never happened (maybe because I follow the above.)  
I prefer thin latex.  The big issue for me is the size...  and some are shaped...  I like enough room without slipping off.  
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Don't shave anything unless YOU want to shave it.  Unless you smell bad no provider is going to turn you away over pubic hair.

The lady will generally have a preferred brand of condoms with her.  She may or may not be open to you using your own. It can't hurt to bring em' but you probably will not need them.

While few, if any, providers will turn you away if you are not trimmed and/or shaved, many have stated that if you want some special treatment for the boys, shave them.  I use Edge and a Gillette Fusion razor.  Prior to the initial shave I bought a Phillips Norelco BodyGroomer and did the trimming.  Yeah, I was nervous the first time, but it gets easier with practice.

Most providers will only use condoms you bring if they are still in a sealed box.  Unless you have some particular reason for bringing your own, just use theirs.  If you feel you must bring your own, discuss it with her ahead of time.  She may have allergies to certain types, which is not uncommon.

Swim