I think that there is a certain amount of pressure put on us when writing reviews to say good things.

Lets say I have a negative experience with a provider. I post a review saying x, y and z and the provider then reads it. She could just as easily black list me, not give me a referral, tell people I was rude etc.

It seems like they have a lot more power.

Does anyone else feel the same way?

IF I had a negative experience or even if a couple of things didn't go as I expected them do I would be reluctant to be honest about it because of the repercussions that could happen.

thoughts?

As you will find out if you stay here long enough, and read enough on the boards, reviews are written for various reasons.  Some are truly forthright, while others are written hoping they will curry favor with a gal, and some are written to bash a gal for no apparent reason.

You may write a review today as "honestly" as you can, and some of the info may not be "kind" to the gal based on your OP.  But you might want to sketch out a review and look at it in another week and see if you really meant what you said.

Also, don't give out your TER handle to the ladies.  They don't need to know, and for this exact reason.  Ask yourself, if this gal didn't have your TER handle would you be so concerned about what you would truly say in a review?  And reviews can be submitted within 90 days of the visit...so if you're concerned she could still match YOU up to a review, just wait the 90 days and submit it then.  I would doubt she could easily match you up...unless you were specific on certain activities that only you and she know about

If the reviewer has many reviews, it's more likely that they are fairly on the level.  The probability that the review is higher if it's his only one and the provider only has 1 or 2 herself.  There are a lot of guys that write fake reviews just to get the VIP days for free, or as a shill for a provider in exchange  for maybe a reduced future rate.

If you worried about repercussions over a bad review, you might not want to post it.  However, guys in your area deserve to know aout your experience.  As an alternative, you could post on your regional board that you had a not-so-good date, and tell the guys to PM you for more info.  If you do that, I suggest waiting a week or so before posting, reducing the possibility of her reading it and doing something you don't want.

Swim

Go have a look , I am honest with nothing to hide - Damn proud of it .
This is a buisness , plain and simple . You do a crappy job fixing my car - Damn right I am going to say something to my friends looking for a new mechanic !
I called a new lady after the bad experience , I TOLD her to go read the review to see what I don't like . Her IMMEDIATE e mail response - " What did you write about __________ !!!! " . It led me to believe they knew each other and MAYBE not the best of friends . She had NO problem seeing me and my benjamins . If a lady has a problem with it and does NOT want to schedule - PERFECT , your doing me a favor !!!  If you don't want to see me because of a bad review - then there is a high probablity you provide a bad service and don't want the TER community to know . THANK YOU for saving me the time and money !!!
Just make sure your providing a good service and you have nothing to worry about from a gentleman writing a bad review . Pretty simple buisness model really . If you can't grasp that simple concept than chances are we won't have much in common on a intellectual level so DON"T see me and we are both happy .
For you to be less than honest in writing a bad review , is not doing ANYBODY a favor . Your simply bending your honesty morals for fear of retribution from a woman who is involved in an illegal activity - I feel if she wants to get nasty ....Dear , you have far more to lose than me and lets not play that game as I will win every time.
Too much competition ( in my area ) to provide a crappy session and still be able to survive !!!

PS..........Many ladies don't even have internet or look here very often - serious !  just make sure your providing a good service and you have nothing to worry about from a gentleman writing a bad review .

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If you didn't give her your TER username that's a help.  Write a draft at once... but don't post it yet.  Wait a week or 2, reflect on the experience & be sure you've been fair.  You have 90 days from the meeting to post the review which is a very long time.  The problem with waiting too long is some ads expire & you must have an internet link to be reviewable.
I have had to write a negative review...  even giving the benifit of the doubt...  there were added rules, rush, one & done, not GFE, out the door in half the time I'd paid for.   Since being a TER member & doing more research I've not had to in a long time...  
skb

I have been with only a few reviewed providers and the same response prevailes.  When giving a provider a looks response, one must look at what he was looking for.  If a massage was in the picture, his grade may be a bit higher than looking for an escort.    I look for a very slim and reserved woman for the massage bit.  But, when I look for a perfect woman for the night, I actually look for a woman like Krista fom Az.   Scores should reflect the preference of the individual looking.