Newbie - FAQ

Home bound.
JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 276 reads
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I am recovering from minor surgery and live about an hour from town. My ATF who is an absolute gem, came over for an extended date. Still one of my fondest memories from the hobby.

I brought up coming to my place to a few other providers and they weren't interested. I am sure if I would have looked harder and tried harder, I could have gotten one to visit, but I did not.

You might have problems just getting a date if you are a newbie.

Good luck!

I'm home-bound and about 30-40 minutes from the nearest population centers that have providers listed here on TER.

How common is it for a provider to go that far?

I saw the newbie faq a few messages up that suggests not using your own home.  How significant is the risk

But quite a few ladies will travel that far, usuall require a 2 hour minimum, or compensation for travel.  Examples, Tampa ladies will go to Orlando, south Florida ladies often work Miami to WPB.  Have you searched under your area codes and checked are served or other cities? May help you

I can't believe how many providers are willing to go to a guy's home and fk him in his wife's bed. I've never done it, and never will. Far too many things can happen in a personal home that can't really happen in a hotel without being obvious. You have no reviews so guessing you have no refernces either. If you are "home bound" then odds are, there is no office you go into everyday, so employment would also be tricky to verify. Sorry, but too many guys have tried this line of bs to lure women to their homes just to stand them up, rob them, rape them, or worse.

I'd guess 40-50 providers have made the trek to my house over the years and I'm sure many of them took a good 30 minutes or more. Traffic can be a bitch.  

Risk? Depends on your situation. I'm single and there isn't one damn thing in my house worth stealing. My neighbors couldn't give a shit. I consider my risk zero. I've never had a problem

Some will if you provide travel expenses but also references too. It's not many providers that will travel a hour away for a 30 minute booking.

I am recovering from minor surgery and live about an hour from town. My ATF who is an absolute gem, came over for an extended date. Still one of my fondest memories from the hobby.

I brought up coming to my place to a few other providers and they weren't interested. I am sure if I would have looked harder and tried harder, I could have gotten one to visit, but I did not.

You might have problems just getting a date if you are a newbie.

Good luck!

I don't know if you are able to do employment verification. That is important if you are a newbie.  

If you are disabled and can't do an incall. Your best bet is to be completely honest with the provider. Some might see you as a newbie but expect to go through a couple of providers that won't see you. That happen to me when I was getting started.

I think a lot of disabled people automatically assume a provider doesn't want to see you due to a disability. Some may not be comfortable. It is just the way things are. Keep on trying.

After you established yourself as a decent client with a couple of references and reviews then a lot of ladies will see you.

There is a scam from both a man and a woman both claiming to be in a wheel chair, asking for providers to travel to their home. When the girl arrives she is robbed. There are also numerous men who have video cameras in their homes, as well as guns. Sorry, never.

But I have several references and reviews. Whenever, I make a date request I am always honest with the provider and explain my situation to them.  

I also have really good references who will vouch that I am definitely use a powerchair to move around. If the lady doesn't feel comfortable which does happens. I just reply with a short thank you for your time and I am sorry that we can't meet at this time.

I don't cuss them out or be pushy. I just move on to the next lady on my list without a second thought or hard feelings.

OP here.  I'm able-bodied, and single -  I'm just stuck at home because I lost my license for awhile.  

My GF dropped me shortly after I could no longer drive.  It's hell meeting people now, and actually I'm kind of sick of the relationship ups and downs, I consider this a way to get through the next several months without the complications.

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