Just my thoughts but I would have the original donation ready first, and the extra in your pocket. Then once the session begins I would request for it, and if granted, tell her you are going to go add to the donation.
First time date tomorrow with provider who is new to me. Really hoping to try Greek as TER reviews says that she has it on her menu. Problem is that I haven't actually talked to her about it... have been setting up appt thru agency call center and they made it absolutely clear that it was not ok to ask about items like that.
So... do I put the Greek portion of the donation in the envelope and cross my fingers that it's a go OR do I keep it in my pocket until after session and leave it on the bathroom counter later for if/when my request is granted.
It sounds like you tried discussing a sexual act with the agency which you should never do. Any questions of that nature should be discussed with the provider after you have settled up and given her the envelope. The agency will always respond in that manner.
I don't really have agency experience of this nature, yet if I were in your situation the way I would handle it is... Do not initially give her the money in the envelope with the hopes of perhaps her granting anal. She will probably consider the extra money a tip if she counts it before hand then when it comes time to perhaps ask about anal she'll say "That's extra Sweetie" and then you'll kill the mood by saying that is what the extra donation was for and she' ll tell you she thought it was a tip then things will probably abruptly go down hill from there.
Give her initially the exact donation. Then before you get really rolling if an opportunity arises at some point and you feel comfortable that she'll discuss it ask then. Or what I would do is as I'm having vaginal intercourse with her, find a way to infer about transitioning to buttland. For instance while you're having vaginal intercourse say something to the effect of "wow..this feels so amazing...can we maybe get a little kinky?" She'll maybe say.."well what did you have in mind?" Then you say "maybe I could switch to a little further down south?" That should open the discussion about anal and if she agrees and says that'll be extra then you ask "what would be cool for that?" If you both agree then do your thing. If she says no then you just saved some up front cash and you now know no anal today.
Just my thoughts but I would have the original donation ready first, and the extra in your pocket. Then once the session begins I would request for it, and if granted, tell her you are going to go add to the donation.
Greek is something one has to prepare for both by fasting and flushing. If you wait til you get there, she may have just eaten 4 lbs of Taco Bell, and you're going to find a Butter Bean bwhahahhaa. Just saying. Don't wait. Any guy that's ever done that to me, was told NO.
I need notice if I am doing that. You need to speak to HER directly though, so just ask if the Island Tour might be possible. Not knowing a guy expects greek, really messes things up during the moment. You don't want to tell him no, but you also don't want to do such a thing without being prepared. It's not JUST about the donation thing, but so much more. Money or no money, I am not doing greek on the spot.
Size is another issue. Some men just assume we are all built the same and can handle any size, and that could not be farther from the truth. This is why I like to know in advance! I usually tell the guys seeking greek that I must see the package first lol. They get the point. I've never kept money for something I could not do.
Just to follow up... I did hold the greek donation from the envelope and Southland was a no as provider was not "prepared" (London nailed it). Had a KILLER session even though I did not get all I was hoping for. All good!
If they are naive enough to think she is really ready without knowing it, you'll see that hilarious review to follow. "OMG, I pulled out a butter bean! The nerve of her to actually eat the day I wanted anal" lol.
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