so yes, there are providers who are good at making a person feel wonderful without the usual gymnastics that are usually associated with the hobby.

I would suggest the more mature providers and that you disclose your needs to them at the time you contact them.

There's more to this than a bunch of machinery in motion.

I've always believed the best providers are not successful because of their technical skills alone (can't think of a better way to phrase that, sorry) but because of how they make a guy feel.

I had a conversation a while back with a couple of providers in LA, they kept wondering about this other, very highly rated provider: 'what does she do to earn such high scores?'.   My opinion was that this lady, and any other, doesn't 'do' anything different but has the talent to make a guy feel like the centre of her world when he's with her.

Which is a long way of saying that if you choose your provider well you should still be able to have very fulfilling encounters.