Write Review
2,071,017 Total Reviews 3,795 New Reviews
7,335 Users Online

Newbie - FAQ

Hmmm....good question. Perhaps when she told me
inicky46 61 Reviews 594 reads
posted

she was leaving, she meant only the GD Board.  Time will tell.

atletatigre2473 reads

Visiting SLC next week and will have a bit of idle time.  I've searched the reviews and sent countless emails to the well-reviewed providers and not getting much back.   Is this common?

Usually email is a nice way to break the ice and to let them know you're legit.  Surprised I'm not getting more hits.

Anyway, anybody have recommendation.  I'll need incall if possible, though I may pony up for cheap motel if the girl is super special.  I'll be staying with friends in Deer Valley so having them come to me is not an option, and I've got idle days on both end of trip without friends on tow.    

Thanks in advance

ReplyQuoteReport
BeautywithBrains1106 reads

...while I am not on your SLC radar, it IS ski season, and most ladies are booked well in advance, and most will not visit cheap motels, r entertain out of them.    

   Good grief.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre857 reads

I'm not kidding and yes I'm well aware it's ski season as I'll be staying in Deer Valley for that very purpose.   However, as I described I'll be sharing that residence with a number of good friends and inviting someone of your ilk along would not be welcome.    

Perhaps I should have been more clear.   I'm arriving early AM on the 20th as the only flights from my location are red-eyes (put 2 and 2 together on that) while my friends will be arriving later in the day.   Therefore, I have some time to spend in SLC that I was planning on spending seeing some family and perhaps entertaining a meeting with someone of your ilk.  

And while funds are not the issue here, part of the reason we have such discretionary funds is because we choose to spend or invest those funds wisely.    Wouldn't make a lot of sense for me to spend $$$$$ on a hotel room that I plan on using for a couple of hours, when I could be putting that money to better use (potentially more time with you or finding a provider that does provide incall).  

As far as not being on my radar ... if you're Washington DC based why would you appear on my radar?  Is there a feature of TER I'm not aware of?  Obviously you didn't show up on any SLC searches.

Appreciate your feedback and I understand how my comments may have been misconstrued.   Might adjust your tact a bit though as well.    

Happy Valentines Day!

- AT

 



-- Modified on 2/14/2014 6:52:55 PM

ReplyQuoteReport
0603450onThe791 reads

kidding. If you're chillin at DV, you can afford easy a $200 room or cover her for it. Give me a break and yes, for a few hours. Now that's funny.  

The roach motels come a dime a dozen in good ol' UT...be careful, would hate for you to get bed bugs just cause you didn't want to fork over the extra cash. Geezk.  

Tact? Ok. LOL

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre710 reads

Now you have made a very good point (bed bugs).   Sad truth is you're just a likely to get them at a high end hotel in Manhattan as you are a cheap hotel in UT.

Affording it isn't the point, it's a value proposition.    For the extra $$ I could potentially get another provider to join us and make it a real party assuming one of them has an incall.

I will say I do like your tact though!

Posted By: TaylorSteele
kidding. If you're chillin at DV, you can afford easy a $200 room or cover her for it. Give me a break and yes, for a few hours. Now that's funny.  
   
 The roach motels come a dime a dozen in good ol' UT...be careful, would hate for you to get bed bugs just cause you didn't want to fork over the extra cash. Geezk.  
   
 Tact? Ok. LOL

ReplyQuoteReport
0603450onThe733 reads

if she is at all a woman who upholds herself to standards...I still wouldn't offer or do the 'motel' thing anywhere. Sorry. Part of the experience is a 'nice' room without looking over your shoulder to see if something is going to crawl on it. It's called a lil something (and if you're staying at DV, God I would think you would get it.......Class)

Again, I know Utah very well, too well. Book a nice high rise room for the extra bucks downtown unless she comes up to PC and I will personally guarantee you will have a 'better' time and so will she. And if 'she' has a better time, I guarantee she will WANT to come back to play with your friends. Make sense?

If you can afford DV...you can afford the latter.  

Just because a woman is in this world, doesn't give you the right to expect to treat her like she's shit on the street booking a crappy room to save a buck. End of discussion.  

And I won't even ask where you're coming from. But yes, I do remember the 'nonlocals' all too well.  

I'll say it again, buy a clue and call me in the morning.

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 5:50:57 AM

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre616 reads

Hmmm ... I can't seem to afford the clue which is why used the word "cheap motel".  And even if I could afford such clue would you really take my call?  :-)    

Clearly I need to choose my words more carefully.  As I mentioned in another post, if I changed "cheap motel" to "room" I guess I wouldn't have encountered the ire I've received.    Lesson learned.

Good points, and as I mentioned there is a value proposition, not a question of what one can afford.   And you can ask any woman that I've ever been with in any way shape or form I don't "treat her like she's shit on the street".    

There are plenty of hidden jewels that would be more than willing to spend a couple of hours at a holiday inn with me or any other number of mongers and I'd be happy to tip them the extra $$$ I didn't spend at the four seasons so they could put that $$$ in their pocket.   Or instead find a "clean well lighted place" for fun and spend the extra funds at a very nice restaurant and enjoy each other's company.  I'd be willing to bet 4 out of 5 would prefer that option.    

However, if you'd prefer I spend the extra $$$ on the room rather than you, I can respect that.   Perhaps I'm just spoiled by the value we get in "where I'm coming from".     Incalls are the norm for the best service where "I'm coming from".

Amazing how I've been villianized for using a single word.  Or perhaps just playful banter Taylor ... ?  Will see if you take my call ;-)

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 7:10:20 AM

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 7:19:11 AM

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 7:21:17 AM

ReplyQuoteReport
0603450onThe605 reads

Your name to warrant respect for another human being. That just takes plain ol'common sense....at least from where I come from.

Yes Im always playful though some will disagree :) Do I know you newbie friend lol ?

Kiss the snow for me and tell SE I said hello.

No calls before 9am please and never on Sunday.

Thank you.

;

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre677 reads

Didn't know staying in the local holiday inn for a few hours was that disrespectful ... but I suppose it depends upon the company.

And I guess at this early hour my neurons are too dull to get your SE reference, but once clarified I'm happy to say "hello".  Not sure what your asking "Do I know you newbie friend lol ?".    Don't think you know me or any of my friends but one never knows ... this is a very small world.

Posted By: TaylorSteele
Your name to warrant respect for another human being. That just takes plain ol'common sense....at least from where I come from.  
   
 Yes Im always playful though some will disagree :) Do I know you newbie friend lol ?  
   
 Kiss the snow for me and tell SE I said hello.  
   
 No calls before 9am please and never on Sunday.  
   
 Thank you.  
   
 ;)  
 

ReplyQuoteReport
0603450onThe652 reads

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre781 reads

... how does one tell what time zone you're in so one doesn't have another gaffe and violates the "no calls before 9am" rule?

Posted By: TaylorSteele
Your name to warrant respect for another human being. That just takes plain ol'common sense....at least from where I come from.  
   
 Yes Im always playful though some will disagree :) Do I know you newbie friend lol ?  
   
 Kiss the snow for me and tell SE I said hello.  
   
 No calls before 9am please and never on Sunday.  
   
 Thank you.  
   
 ;)  
 

ReplyQuoteReport
0603450onThe665 reads

all else it'll kick over to my voicemail. Sexy voice please or I won't return your call.

ReplyQuoteReport
AnotherDonJohn547 reads

ReplyQuoteReport
inicky46595 reads

she was leaving, she meant only the GD Board.  Time will tell.

ReplyQuoteReport
keystonekid557 reads

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre646 reads

I passed rocket science 101 ... hence my comments to her.  Sounds like an aphorism to me.    So what's your point

ReplyQuoteReport
keystonekid666 reads

save it for a rainy day which he has claimed might be a FMF if one of the F's has an incall.

ReplyQuoteReport
BigPapasan569 reads

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre706 reads

Hmmmm ... perhaps I have sunk to my adversary's level.  It happens.

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 5:44:21 AM

ReplyQuoteReport
VOO-doo681 reads

Like a wise client of mine once said, "Think of any type of woman in the world, and she is here." I am paraphrasing him, but you get the point.

Some of us are beloved family members...some of us volunteer at homeless shelters...some of us are quite accomplished in other areas, believe it or not. There all sorts of women of our "ilk" who participate in this activity for various reasons.

"People of our ilk"!!! Imagine if some random woman said that about men who pay for sex. How would you react?  

(*)!

Posted By: atletatigre
Hmmmm ... perhaps I have sunk to my adversary's level.  It happens.

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 5:44:21 AM

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre633 reads

Of course they are.   So if your were  professor of english and we were having a conversation about a Pulitzer price and I said "what is the opinion of a man of  your ilk" you're saying you'd be offended?

In my opinion the term "hooker" is more offensive.   When was the last time any of these women you've known have refererred to themsleves or others in the business as "hookers"?

The amount of judgement in this forum is astounding ...

ilk
ilk/
noun
noun: ilk
1.
a type of people or things similar to those already referred to.

synonyms: type, sort, class, category, group, set, breed, strain, bracket, genre, make, model, kind, brand, vintage, stamp, style, family, variety More
SCOTTISHarchaic
of the place or estate of the same name.
noun: of that ilk; plural noun: of that ilks
"Sir Iain Moncreiffe of that Ilk"

ReplyQuoteReport
VOO-doo659 reads

But you CLEARLY did not mean anything positive when you said 'people of your ilk'.

Your lack of respect for providers shines through here, which is why you're getting so much negative feedback.  

As a 'hooker' myself, I'm personally not offended by that word. If you read more of these forums, you will see used here with great frequency...by ladies themselves, and the gentlemen who respect them. It's almost become a term of endearment, here...whether it connotes something positive or negative, completely depends on the context. Just like your comment.

Here's some constructive feedback about your premise in another post - just a 'service provider's' opinion - were you to book Roach Motel or even a Days Inn, and offer me the $$ you saved - whether it be as a tip, or extra time...as soon as you told me the hotel name, I'd bail. Or, I'd offer to book something nicer and meet you there, assuming the cost myself (that's if you seemed REALLY nice).  

It's not that I think I'm too good for such places.  When I'm traveling, I'll stay in the Econolodge, no problem. But when you do this...you want to treat the other person well, like he/she is special.That way, your chances of having a great experience are vastly improved. I'd personally feel that if, the Roach Motel was the setting he'd felt was appropriate...I'd be scared as to how he'd approach the rest of our time together. Just my opinion.

ReplyQuoteReport
AnotherDonJohn702 reads

Especially with a newbie OP.  

Voodoo, you really should know better. Before you point out the hypocrisy of who's telling you this, show me where I've got into flaming the OP. At most, I reply once more more to the person, if she (i know which one you might cite) replied. And I don't pull out all the stops. I'll only flame with established posters.

Point is: If the newbie OPer is not being an ass with you, why go further? You even noted he modified his OP. Please stop.

Posted By: VOO-doo
But you CLEARLY did not mean anything positive when you said 'people of your ilk'.  
   
 Your lack of respect for providers shines through here, which is why you're getting so much negative feedback.  
   
 As a 'hooker' myself, I'm personally not offended by that word. If you read more of these forums, you will see used here with great frequency...by ladies themselves, and the gentlemen who respect them. It's almost become a term of endearment, here...whether it connotes something positive or negative, completely depends on the context. Just like your comment.  
   
 Here's some constructive feedback about your premise in another post - just a 'service provider's' opinion - were you to book Roach Motel or even a Days Inn, and offer me the $$ you saved - whether it be as a tip, or extra time...as soon as you told me the hotel name, I'd bail. Or, I'd offer to book something nicer and meet you there, assuming the cost myself (that's if you seemed REALLY nice).  
   
 It's not that I think I'm too good for such places.  When I'm traveling, I'll stay in the Econolodge, no problem. But when you do this...you want to treat the other person well, like he/she is special.That way, your chances of having a great experience are vastly improved. I'd personally feel that if, the Roach Motel was the setting he'd felt was appropriate...I'd be scared as to how he'd approach the rest of our time together. Just my opinion.


-- Modified on 2/16/2014 6:11:07 PM

ReplyQuoteReport
VOO-doo557 reads

I felt that he was out of line, both in his original modified post (which he defended, even if he did change it), and in his reply to me. I also felt that I brought up a viewpoint which was not addressed in any other post.

As has been said so many times...why not just skip over the post if it's not interesting to you?  

I am done with the OP, tho...and it seems that he is done with us.

ReplyQuoteReport
0603450onThe683 reads

Damn. DV haha. No comment. But 'cheap' motel? Do you even know where you're headed hahahahaha. Good luck with that one unless you're headed to 'Tool'ele LOL (close enough)

-- Modified on 2/14/2014 7:18:35 PM

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre608 reads

hey Taylor... that's not one word!

I had to look up your Tooele reference.   Guess I don't know that place but it sounds like I'd fit in well there.   I always hate the looks of disgust I get when I show up in DV wearing $40 Levi's rather than $500 jeans.  I'm sure Warren Buffet feels the same.

You get my point though.   It's been a fun exchange.   Aloha!

ReplyQuoteReport
89Springer559 reads

I've been in Utah dozens of times on motorcycle trips. Plenty of cheap motels. One of the last ones I had featured a chicken coop outside the bathroom window. The rooster crowed at dawn, and I almost shot him.

I have to ask: if the girl is "super special", why would you get a cheap motel?

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre635 reads

Funny @ the chickens.   On a trip through SE Asia's we had a similar problem.   Our guide made the guilty one our dinner the next day!   Some of the other adventurers weren't pleased.

Thanks for the feedback.

ReplyQuoteReport
hiddenhills531 reads

You can fly down on Southwest see a great Vegas provider and be back the same day.  You mentioned you sent countless emails.  I'm in SLC numerous times a year on business, this could be one of weakest cities to hobby. Care give up the names of who you contacted  

Posted By: atletatigre
Visiting SLC next week and will have a bit of idle time.  I've searched the reviews and sent countless emails to the well-reviewed providers and not getting much back.   Is this common?  
   
 Usually email is a nice way to break the ice and to let them know you're legit.  Surprised I'm not getting more hits.  
   
 Anyway, anybody have recommendation.  I'll need incall if possible, though I may pony up for cheap motel if the girl is super special.  I'll be staying with friends in Deer Valley so having them come to me is not an option, and I've got idle days on both end of trip without friends on tow.    
   
 Thanks in advance!  
   
 

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre558 reads

If only I had the time for Vegas.   I know enough lifestylers there I could easily get my fix of fun.    I've got time to kill, but it's more like 8 - 12 hour chunks unfortunately.   Good thought though.

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre597 reads

Clearly I need to improve my tact with this crowd.    Is there some way I can remove the "cheap hotel" and replace it with "room" so I don't receive the ire of every person that is above ever staying in one for any period of time?

Let the games begin :-)

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre659 reads

I did manage to get in touch with a well-reviewed provider and have made arrangements (and she does provide incall).   That is unless she reads this forum and has no appreciation for my wise ass (or classless in some circles) humor ... in which case I suppose I'll be left in the cold.    

Sorry to disappoint the rest of you girls :-)  and thanks to all of you for keeping me entertained.  Insomnia is a bee aatch.

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 7:36:31 AM

ReplyQuoteReport
0603450onThe731 reads

Treat her right. ;)  

That's how class is defined in my book. Enjoy ?)

Posted By: atletatigre
I did manage to get in touch with a well-reviewed provider and have made arrangements (and she does provide incall).   That is unless she reads this forum and has no appreciation for my wise ass (or classless in some circles) humor ... in which case I suppose I'll be left in the cold.    
   
 Sorry to disappoint the rest of you girls :-)  and thanks to all of you for keeping me entertained.  Insomnia is a bee aatch.

-- Modified on 2/15/2014 7:36:31 AM

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre821 reads

With me and providers it's always quid pro quo.    

Posted By: TaylorSteele
Treat her right. ;)  
   
 That's how class is defined in my book. Enjoy ?)  
   
Posted By: atletatigre
I did manage to get in touch with a well-reviewed provider and have made arrangements (and she does provide incall).   That is unless she reads this forum and has no appreciation for my wise ass (or classless in some circles) humor ... in which case I suppose I'll be left in the cold.      
     
  Sorry to disappoint the rest of you girls :-)  and thanks to all of you for keeping me entertained.  Insomnia is a bee aatch.  
   
 -- Modified on 2/15/2014 7:36:31 AM

ReplyQuoteReport
harborview586 reads

get yourself screened & enjoy.

ReplyQuoteReport
atletatigre657 reads

That's basically the answer I was looking for affirmation for.    

Though I will say if there were any gems worth the additional price and minor logistics of a hotel I might have considered.   Nice to receive a informative and judgement free response.

thanks

ReplyQuoteReport
HoeCheck765 reads

Then try BP, some of the ladies there might do a outcall to a Holiday Inn.
And FYI: BeautyandBrains said she WASN'T on your radar in her post, not on your radar.
Son, I need for you to "pony up" and get some class and common sense.  

Posted By: atletatigre
Visiting SLC next week and will have a bit of idle time.  I've searched the reviews and sent countless emails to the well-reviewed providers and not getting much back.   Is this common?  
   
 Usually email is a nice way to break the ice and to let them know you're legit.  Surprised I'm not getting more hits.  
   
 Anyway, anybody have recommendation.  I'll need incall if possible, though I may pony up for cheap motel if the girl is super special.  I'll be staying with friends in Deer Valley so having them come to me is not an option, and I've got idle days on both end of trip without friends on tow.    
   
 Thanks in advance!  
   
 

ReplyQuoteReport
Post Reply Back To Forum
Register Now!