I'm sure this is one of those oft-asked questions but... My man's biggest fantasy (surprise) is a MFF threesome. Ok, I'm in to turning him out, so I'm willing. But discretion is critical. So I've been advised to "hire a professional." Haven't a clue where to begin. Any advice?

just do a reviews search for providers in (or near) the city where you're located (reviews tab above and then search the reviews for the city).  Start to email those with many consistently good reviews to see if they're into it.  Some will be into couples, some won't (read their advertisements).  Go with the providers which have good pics and good reviews.  Maybe have your husband do this to see what he likes the best.  Some of these women are bi and wouldn't mind titillating you as well.

Step 1)  Buy a TER VIP membership.  It only costs $20 for a month, long enough to meet your need, and is easy enough to cancel.

Step 2)  With VIP status, you can do much more detailed searches.  A couple of categories you will want to focus on are "Two Girl Action" and "Will Bring 2nd Provider".  Ladies who are known for these will be most willing to provide the 3-way you're looking for.

Step 3)  Read the reviews and websites carefully.

Step 4)  When you make contact with a provider, be careful not to be too direct in describing what you're interested in, and don't ask about the cost.

Thank you so much for your help. Hey, I aims to please!

Thank you so much.

Or a hobbyist named marie ?

-- Modified on 5/1/2006 8:41:29 AM

No, I Googled it all by myself!

I guess that makes me a hobbyist to be.

Don't you think that perhaps that it might be a woman who used a search engine, and found TER by herself?

You know there are women who are intelligent enough out there to find this site by themselves without being told about it, or finding out about it from their husbands..

Anyways, if she is legit, he is one lucky man.  why couldn't I have married a woman like her.  

gosh you sound like a nice lady, your husband does sound lucky indeed.

Ive been an escort for quite a long time- There are many other things to search in google- Like Independent escorts in (name of city) ..

do you even know how many women are on here lurking after their hubbies ? Harass someone else

-- Modified on 5/2/2006 4:46:42 AM

She googled (wow that is that a verb now!), this site all by herself.

Yes I do agree that there are many women out there who are "checking up" on their husbands also.

BTW Secretmarie, do you have a sister?

-- Modified on 5/2/2006 5:22:29 AM

Why not type in Independent escorts in her city..

I'm hoping to surprise him, so yes, indeed, I did find it all on my own and I'm totally legit. I'm also amazed. Am I THAT unusual? Ok, I know I'm a little, maybe a lot. But this is fascinating. Do we stop being adventurous once we get married? Or do you think it's the ownership thing? The way I figure it, if he wants to fuck somebody else, he's going to. I can't force him not to. But I can damn sure make it so he wouldn't want to.

Sorry, I don't! I never thought about the "checking up" thing. I guess some of us do that, huh? But don't other women explore this with their husbands? And if they don't want friends involved because of the inevitable crap that will ensue (not to mention the lack of anonymity), how else would they make it happen?

That's not a bad idea. But I came here to ask the question, actually. I didn't know where to start, only that the option of a professional seemed to be a good one. After I got such helpful advice, enthusiastic support and discovered the reviews, well this seems like absolutely the best option. Especially for someone who really doesn't know what she's doing!

In what area of the country are you located?