I'm gonna meet a girl soon. I usually don't shave my public hair, but I don't know if I should shave it before we meet. Is really not very comfortable after shaving. Any ideas? Do you guys really care if the man is hairy down there?

This question comes up fairly frequently on TER. Responses from the ladies vary, but they tend to favor trimming back the bush if not shaving smooth. Some providers love smooth, especially the balls for floss-free BLS.  Others don't mind some hair and don't like shaved if it leaves any stubble.  Some guys who shave leave a "landing strip" above the penis to avoid that problem.  (Many women do something similar.)

Shaving is problematic because of stubble.  However trimming to about half an inch eliminates the jungle look (this advice applies to the ladies too who don't choose to shave it.)

If the shaving is done a few hours before the session, stubble is not an issue.

I don't shave or trim.  So far the ladies haven't objected . . . at least to me.

I've been shaving for years, I sometimes will let it grow back just a little, but the shaft and balls should be smooth before seeing a lady, they love smooth and fresh smelling balls, when giving a BJ   :

It feels like straight up sandpaper.  

From Tori's perspective: Too much hair can be a turn-off, so a little manscaping is greatly appreciated especially when a lot of oral is on the menu. Remember we aren't cats and would appreciate staying clear of fur balls...lol If you do shave it all off or trim it way down, please make sure there isn't any course stubble because that can start to create some issues when we are intimate, especially for those of us who wax down there.  Bottom line: just trim the forest back a little and thin it out for us.

You have to be nuts (pun intended) to take a razor to the family jewels. Get yourself a decent body groomer instead.

And it's P U B I C hair.

What about men that get waxed?

I say shave it all and you will be surprised how much the ladies will like it; this is my personal preference. I like my ladies to clean shaved to, they don't have completely shaved, and I do appreciate a landing strip which some have. My suggestion is we come for an experience so good ahead a give it a try.