Read the links contained in the Self-Help Center. Also, use the search function on this board and try reading a few pages, since most questions will eventually repeat.
The self help center, or newbie manual, as it's sometimes referred as, should be read in it's entirety, even the sections for providers. All the information is helpful. You could also read this forum back a few pages, because you might find the answer to a question that you wanted to ask. If you have a question you want to keep private, feel free to PM me, I am TER's host of this board.
Secondly, if you do not yet have VIP membership, get it. Without VIP, you cannot do thorough research on providers you might want to see. As you see some member providers, write reviews, which will give you free VIP days.
I would also recommend that you join one or more of the verification sites, DateCheck, Preferred411, or RoomService2000. Providers will want references before seeing you, and you probably do not have any yet. It's better to give out some personal info to the verification sites than to give it out to several providers until you can get references. P411 does have a toll-free number you can call.
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