My name is Leah Mitchell I'm a fairly new provider looking to gain the trust of hobbyist to receive reviews.  I've been in the lifestyle for about 8 months now but still have not gained any reviews I mainly been on the advertising Backpages. Im looking for a change in clientele and a safer way to gain clients.  What must I do in order to gain the trust of hobbyist in order to receive reviews  to build a good reputation with trust well- known hobbyist ?

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Post on your local boards. Getting that first review can be tough, but once that is done, things will get easier.

1. Read and participate on your regional board here on TER. This will help guys in your area get to know about you and your personality.  
2. Post ads on your TER regional ad board. Check the "Provider Ad Posting Guidelines" in the Self-Help Center. I placed the link to this at the bottom of this post.
The two suggestions above will let TER members know about you and TER members are more likely to review you.
3. Place the link to your web site in your posts when you reply to people in the discussions on your regional board. The link goes at the bottom in the link URL field. If you don't have a web site getting one would be useful. You can place a link to an ad you have on BP or Eros etc. .Note: You may not place a link in your posts if you are initiating the discussion only in replies to others.
4. Remember as a new TER member your posts are moderated. Once you submit a post TER board admin will check it before it is posted and will allow it as long as it meets TER message board posting guidelines. You can find the link to those on the upper right of the message board. The Self-Help Center link is there too.
After a few months of posting and showing you can follow the rules you can contact Admin and ask to be unmoderated.
5. Once you do receive a review you can ask Admin to link your TER handle (LeahMitchell) to your review profile. This will give you the free limited Provider VIP membership. Read about that in the Self-Help Center.
6. You won't have a provider profile until you get your first review. It will be created by the reviewer. This is also when you will get a TER provider ID number.
7. Read all links in the Self-Help Center. Lot of good info there for guys and ladies. Knowing all of it is useful.

Where are you located? Sometimes BP is the only show in town, I know - I live in a smallish area, hundreds of miles from a TER "hotspot". But just because you advertise on BP doesn't mean you should have to deal with low-class clientele. Build a nice website, up your screening levels, develop a presence here (as xyz suggested), get some professional quality photographs (if you don't already have) and so on. Also, don't ever hesitate to ask a client to review you if he is a member of a board, just be real careful about offering specials or trying to influence the body of the review, that stuff gets around and can really hurt you in the long run (not saying you would do that, obviously I don't know you at all, just putting it out there)

Get off Backpage ASAP!!  Use Eros.com or advertise on the Ad Board here under your respective state.  I have used Eros many times and have only been disappointed once.  All the ladies on Eros are professionals, not girls trying to pay their boyfriends' rent or support a drug habit.

This one below:  http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewall.asp?MessageID=127437&boardID=33&page=1#127437

of the ladies, so guys will feel somewhat safer scheduling with you.
Also, do you know any other providers?  If you had someone who would vouch for you that you are legit then guys would see you based on her reputation.

Thanks so much for the feedback

Thanks so much for the feedback my incall location is are generally and Lewisville,Denton, North Dallas.

I have attempted to register with date check and p411 but those sites require for you to have reviews before you become verified provider. I would need someone to be able to the outs for me on p411 hobbyist or a provider that would give me a okay

my highly unpaid assistants have given you some great advice.  I looked at your website, very nice.  Posting here is a good idea, and you can post an ad here once every 7 days.  Once you gain some board presence and demonstrate to admin that you can follow the posting rules, you can request to be un-moderated so your posts will appear as soon as you enter them.

Hey there,
   Thank you for this info! I am new too and its a big help!
xo

Thank you so much for the info! I'm in the same boat as Leah. This was very helpful.