I am only 3 months into this hobby and so far only tried a handful of independent providers. Now when I try to move my way up to more reputable agencies I found it is rather difficult without any references. I guess I can pass the screening with employment verification but feel uncomfortable of providing real name and employment information to agencies. What if the agency get busted? Isn't this how Eliot Spitzer got into trouble? My question is that is there anyone really do employment verification? how safe it is
Everyone must give information in order to prove to the agencies and the independent providers that they are safe. I understand your concern but keep in mind that screening is the only method a provider has to protect herself. Screening also protects you from getting busted.
You only have to give your information a couple of times in order to gain a couple refs. You can also try P411 or Date Check but those also require you to prove to them that you are who you say are.
One thing I do is that I have 2 providers that I see regularly and they are my refs. Since you seen some indys. You can ask them to be your refs. I am assuming they were newbie friendly. Most newbie friendly providers are reference friendly
I only recently heard of P411 and Date Check, still not sure how it works. You mean it is less risky for such escort sites to do employment verification
The advantage to P411 and Date Check is your info goes to one place and they verify you. You don't have to keep giving your info out to multiple providers. More upside to P411 is they are in Canada. P411 has a phone number on their web site so you can call them and work out what you can give them and what they will accept in order to verify you. Date Check and the other service (RS2K) don't have a number posted from what I understand. (By the way all of this info is here on the newbie board. A search will bring it up for you.)
Once one of the services verifies you then you can begin contacting ladies that use these services for verifying guys that inquire about appointments. Some providers are newbie friendly and will see you based on your P411 membership alone. Some however will want you to be "OK'd" by some of the P411 providers before they will see you or they will want more info about you. Being verified by one of the services helps a lot but doesn't clear away all obstacles. The good news is once you have seen some ladies they can be references for you and give you those "OK's" on P411. Date Check and P411 have provider profiles on their site. That helps you research and choose who to see. Don't forget to read the reviews here AND as always you should start out by seeing well reviewed providers who have been reviewed by hobbyists that have written many reviews.
Read the Self-Help Center. The link to it is at the upper right of this discussion board directly under the red and white life preserver. Once there read all of it. Even the stuff for providers. It's good to know all you can. Once you've read it read several pages of discussion here. Use the search function. Always feel free to ask questions on this board. Pay for the VIP membership. It's much cheaper than a ruined session.
Honestly, I feel better with independents instead of agencies. I like to chit chat for a few min with her and not the booker. Also, I feel that an agency is just a bigger target.
If it's a hobbyphone you can just toss it. Having a person's name and job isn't substantial at all. That can easily be found in someone's LinkedIn profile.
Unless you have a high profile status like Eliot Spitzer, I won't sweat it. After a session, ask if you can use them as a reference
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