Hi I am Roxi and I am new to this and was wondering if I could get some advice from providers and clients? Hugs Roxi

Hi Roxy...

Sorry forgot to put I am in the Atlanta area.

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Hi, Roxi, I'm a fairly new hobbiest (client), so I speak from somewhat limited experience. I usually email providers I'm interested in seeing, I write a little about myself, then why I want to see her, then invite her to write back. About 1 in 5 or 6 respond at all, then only with limited info. If she's not interested im me, for whatever reason, a simple 'no thanks' would be nice. I always treat the providers like they're actual persons, not just objects, and would like the same. Some are good at this, some aren't. I don't like to be rushed, I'm pushing 50 pretty hard, and sometimes it takes a little longer. I guess if I've paid for a whole hour, I expect the whole hour. I like to know as much as possible of what your desires as well as limits are before we get together, I'll gladly share mine, too. It doesn't happen very often, but being told no in the middle of a session is a huge turn-off. Hopefully this helps.

Thank you so much wandering, and I understand about the hour, I always give the whole hour if the client needs it, after all it is what the client paid for and I am a loving nurturing person, so if the client just wants to lay and cuddle after the service or just to talk, I am here for them. I have already pushed over 50 to 52...lol...although I still look in my early 40's I still believe in great customer service. I always book my appts with half hour in between too so client can shower or take his time getting dressed, I believe as providers we should take the whole person into consideration mind, body, and spirit things are rushed and stressed enough in this life. I guess providers are hesitant to talk much about the service, not knowing if client is LE or not.I always respond to my inquiries whether I accept them or not. I do appreciate a picture when clients email me too. Below are two of my daily affirmations...thank you again..Hugs Roxi

When pleasure is your central focus, life gets so much easier. You learn that your guidance system will keep you on track when you follow the adage, "nothing is more important than that you feel good."

You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love...........

Where is the Atlanta board?

A few tips from a long term veteran client.

1)  Decide now what you are willing to do, and what you aren't.  It is your body, your health, and your safety, your rules!!!

2)  If a situation feels wrong, get out ASAP, even if it means you leave without the cash.

3)  Enjoy what you are doing!!!  The experienced hobbyist can tell when a lady, no matter hot she may be, can tell when a woman is merely going through the motions for the money, and a woman who takes pride in, and enjoys, her work.

4)  Get a mentor!!!  Having an experiencd lady, who has seen it all, willing to help you to keep sane in the mad business will help you immensly.  Unfortunately, I have limited knowlege of the Atlanta market, and have no suggestions of someone to to play this role for you.

I hope this helps, and wish you success,

jazz32

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Atlanta Board. Good luck and welcome.

Tori of Atlanta gave a great suggestion. Roxi should go to the Atlanta board and strike up relationships there by posting on that board. She should find whatever help she wants.