Newbie - FAQ

Hi Duplicit and Right on:)
doublebassist 3108 reads
posted
1 / 17

Are providers more willing to see you if you're a VIP TER member? Is it kinda like datecheck and P411 in that way?

OldTraveler 40 Reviews 1411 reads
posted
2 / 17

Some ladies will look more favorably on a TER VIP membership.  However TER is primarilly for the reviews and does not carry the same screening weight with many ladies as DC or P411

ScFunWife See my TER Reviews 656 reads
posted
3 / 17

Posted By: OldTraveler
Some ladies will look more favorably on a TER VIP membership.  However TER is primarilly for the reviews and does not carry the same screening weight with many ladies as DC or P411
That is true for the most part but if you're white listed by a few ladies who have been well reviewed that's a very big plus.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 933 reads
posted
4 / 17

Dear Lianna:
I was just wondering since you have become an active provider what are you favorite verification sites and why? Also what sites give you the most information and which ones tend to make you delve more before making a decision? Also which site to you have no doubt about and which sites tend to make you ask for further information?

LiannaGerrit See my TER Reviews 2486 reads
posted
5 / 17

VIP is for your benefit in that you can find out more about the girls and read the juicy details .I have no idea if someone is a VIP or not just like you guys have no idea if I have  VIP membership or just reviews.It in no way screens you though .

White listings also are not screening it does mean however that someone ,somewhere on this site did see you and felt either on her own or after your requesting it that you should have a whitelisting from them .
I do not accept white listings as a form of screening myself .Although it is nice to know you may have seen many girls and they did list you. I generally i assume you requested it and possibly the girl did have a good time or just does not know how to say no to a guy who she has seen.

I do not give them unless they are requested because some guys do not want them at all.Typically these are also the same guys who do not have or want reviews.They feel safer somehow not being attached to reviews or listings of any sort.

IMHO references from  a girl i can contact via email who has reviews ,a site and who is living and still breathing after spending time with you are the way I feel most comfortable . I personally require 2 of these as a minimum .I do not want to know where you work. I want to know a girl without you reading what she has to say will say in private to me what she thinks about you as far as you being a safe guy . Without that i just can not feel comfortable and so that is what i ask for .Of course every girl is different for sure and their requirements will vary . Good luck to you ,Lianna

Posted By: ScFunWife
Posted By: OldTraveler
Some ladies will look more favorably on a TER VIP membership.  However TER is primarilly for the reviews and does not carry the same screening weight with many ladies as DC or P411
That is true for the most part but if you're white listed by a few ladies who have been well reviewed that's a very big plus.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 910 reads
posted
6 / 17

some ladies will see you as long as you are a VIP member and some do not care if you are VIP or not.The difference is Date-Check and P411 are verification sites where ladies have ads and TER is a review site where a lady is able to post an ad as well as participate in the different forums.Just because a gentleman is a TER VIP member does not mean he is safe anyone can purchase TER VIP.But,not everyone can join P411 or Date-Check.I rather a gentleman be a member of either or both of the verification sites and have okays listed from ladies he has seen in the past.So,even if a gent is a VIP here I will still ask for references.

rightonppl 29 Reviews 901 reads
posted
7 / 17

Posted By: LiannaGerrit
I do not accept white listings as a form of screening myself .. I generally i assume you requested it and possibly the girl did have a good time or just does not know how to say no to a guy who she has seen. ..

I want to know a girl without you reading what she has to say will say in private to me what she thinks about you as far as you being a safe guy . Without that i just can not feel comfortable and so that is what i ask for .
What you say applies both ways. I read with skepticism reviews of providers who have white listed their reviewers. I want to know what a man has to say about his experience when the provider isn't reading along and granting her approval.

LiannaGerrit See my TER Reviews 1089 reads
posted
8 / 17

I do not have a favorite site for verifying.I understand that they are helpful to people in verifying potential clients and loads of ladies accept them .I think it is great for them but pesonally i do not place ads anywhere at all with exception to here which even then is really very rare . Usually you will see me do it around holiday season ..maybe a few of more times during the year and that is all .

I do not belong to these other sites and so access for me is extremely limited .I for muself find i do not need ads at all to procure clients .
I need reviews if I want people to want me . When i feel i do not want new peole to contact me i take down my site for awhile typically 3 months a year sometimes 5 or 6  assuming I am busy enough for my life and liking. . The way it works for me personally is all I have to do is provide an awesome experience and wait for someone who saw me who is interested in writing a review to go ahead on his own and write it and i am all set .So long as a girl does her job as well or better then the girls in her surrounding area she needs not spend time money or energy on anything other than the one thing that matters , providing the best experience you can with what you have . The interaction between two people is what this is about to me .It is an interaction of course and to that end it is different each time to some extent .It is a tandem sport.
That being said it leads me back to my original response which is i require at least 2 providers to say they would see you agian , you are safe and they had a great time when they were with you ,that is the verification that makes me comfortable . Real people in real time .This of course does not verify all of that personal info you may be nervous about giving which incidently also does not mean a whole lot to me.Where you work etc , i have little to no interest in .I am interested in what you do when you are with me not what you do when you are not with me :) Your name , age, a number i can reach you at need be especially on the day and time we are planning on meeting , 2 or more provider references and i do love to read the reviews of guys . Not so much for verifying but rather to be able to see if i think your interests are something that quite frankly interest me.Some people can not be made happy if you have 10 reviews and all or most of them are bitchfests i have zero interest in being the first pesron to ever be able to make you happy.In all industries across the board there are some peole who you can not ever make happy no matter what , those guys i hope they see someone else . This of course does not take a genius to figure out that i do not see newbie people at all i am sorry to say .

Righton I agree with you entirely , i do not trust the ones that appear to be in cahoots .I do not trust the ones that only see new girls and i do not trust guys that give all great reviews to an agent especially their new girls and then always bad or not as good ones to indys .They may times are in cahoots with the agent .Imagine them having 10/10 experience constantly with the agents newest girls with zero experience yet can't seem to do so with an indy who well is on all other accounts fabulous. always raises an eyebrow for me. I might mention that many guys do not want you to read their reviews i also will not see them huge redflag for me . Have an awesome week, Lianna .

OldTraveler 40 Reviews 1160 reads
posted
9 / 17

And reinforces the point that different ladies can have different ways to screen

EliteCasey See my TER Reviews 862 reads
posted
10 / 17

Hi doublebassist i think TER vip is more for your benefit than for the ladies safety screening but that said... If you are a VIP member then you can read reviews on ladies and have a better idea of who your seeing and if it's worthwhile to book the date. From a ladies point of view. I have now joined both P411 and date-check so that i can keep myself safe although I am a VIP on this site and have learned so much already so will be keeping my membership. I think it's beneficial if you want to be up-to-speed on reviews and to have some general banter with some of the gorgeous ladies listed here and on the other sites you mentioned and as somebody else has already pointed out whitelist is a fab way to get good recognition from the ladies and they're more likely to see you then. Have fun and welcome to the site if your joining, LOL

Casey :-) xx

AshleighRicci See my TER Reviews 1359 reads
posted
11 / 17

Having TER VIP just means you're willing to pay a small fee to see reviews, if you are "whitelisted" that is more reassuring.

You can join Date-Check just using your personal work and drivers license info, which they jumble up into a handy "handle" DC and P411 can check your employment and verify you, which saves us girls tons of time and headaches.

I give a discount to DC/P411 verified ppl cause I hate chasing references down for last minute apps.

doublebassist 1020 reads
posted
12 / 17

What's the difference between a non-honorary, and honorary datecheck membership?
I'm thinking about joining, but not sure about me being an unemployed student. What kind of information do they ask for? Do they just make sure you are who you say you are and that you're not a violent felon and stuff like that?

pk2291080 4 Reviews 842 reads
posted
13 / 17

Hi everyone, new person here, I had exactly the same question - I received an invite for a three-month membership for free from a provider after I saw her.  In my case paying for it isn't an issue, but I am curious about the information they ask for.  As an example - I'd be fine with telling an individual provider what I do, where I work, etc but am skeptical about handing this over to a company that runs a big website.
Is this misplaced anxiety?  And is this specific company (datecheck) generally reputable in terms of credit card info, not keeping you on autorenew if you you cancel it, and so forth?

Thanks for this thread!  -P

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 919 reads
posted
14 / 17

For those sort of questions I would advise to contact Date-Check directly and see what they require.Also,they would be able to tell you about the different memberships they offer.

Posted By: doublebassist
What's the difference between a non-honorary, and honorary datecheck membership?
I'm thinking about joining, but not sure about me being an unemployed student. What kind of information do they ask for? Do they just make sure you are who you say you are and that you're not a violent felon and stuff like that?

rightonppl 29 Reviews 515 reads
posted
15 / 17

with an invite you don't need to provide personal info. But yes, both datecheck and p411 are reputable, at least more reputable than Sony Corp.

The questions you guys have about datecheck's verification requirements are best answered by just going to date-check.com and reading the FAQ or clicking 'Join' and reading the info shown there.

rightonppl 29 Reviews 415 reads
posted
16 / 17
OldTraveler 40 Reviews 1695 reads
posted
17 / 17

No personal info is needed.  At least it was not when I joined both quite some time ago.

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