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just wanted to say hi
leveille See my TER Reviews 1877 reads
posted
1 / 10

Hi, my name is Alexa, im 19.
im fairly new to this site and profession.
i just wanted to introduce myself and say HI!
I decided i wanted to start out with mostly outcalls
I know that its harder to do outcalls when starting out independently, any advice?

unlucky2 27 Reviews 467 reads
posted
2 / 10

There are a lot of gentlemen that prefer outcalls only, myself included. Hopefully you'll get some ladies to respond to your question and i hope you enjoy your new career.......

LovetoDaty 7 Reviews 533 reads
posted
3 / 10

Also, you might want to consider buying a VIP membership; if only for a month or two, one of the benefits is you will be able to correspond directly with other VIPs using the PM (private message) and get individual advice. Don't forget to check out the self-help center FAQs (link upper right under the life preserver).
Best of luck to you. :-)

markmelanne 48 Reviews 602 reads
posted
4 / 10

Tell us about yourself
Any pics?
Where do you live?

EasyTimes 7 Reviews 449 reads
posted
5 / 10

Lovetodaty gave your great advice about VIP and taking time to read the Self Help Center.  It will have info about posting guidelines, for ads, photos, among things.  You can also use the search function to search this board of threads on other topics of interest, to see if it has already been covered.  And of course feel free to ask any questions here.

As has been said, many guys prefer outcall, especially business travelers, as it is often easier to have you come to them in their hotel.  Many times locals will prefer incall, rather than have someone come to their home for a myriad of privacy reasons.  So, it really depends on your market, and your goals.  Many ladies are quite successful doing primarily, if not entirely outcalls.  Others, prefer incall because they feel more in control of the environment. You choose what is right for you!  Best of luck!

leveille See my TER Reviews 702 reads
posted
6 / 10

thank you.
I get to do what I love, i know i'll enjoy my new career

Posted By: unlucky2
There are a lot of gentlemen that prefer outcalls only, myself included. Hopefully you'll get some ladies to respond to your question and i hope you enjoy your new career.......

keystonekid 114 Reviews 534 reads
posted
7 / 10

several pages here on the Newbie Board.

Don't compromise your screening for anyone. Your safety needs to come first. If you need help screening, contact a provider in your area that might be willing to assist with methods of screening.

A good website is essential to marketing yourself. It doesn't have to be original, a cookie cutter type works too. More importantly, good pics showing you in various attire and in various posses. You don't need to show all the goods, leave something for the date itself. Also, if you need to blur your face or cover with long hair, etc. for discretion, that is fine. Again, your privacy is important.

Also, as was said already, keep your boundaries firm. If you don't want to visit Greece, then don't. If you don't want to do MFM, then don't.

Good luck.

MissCrissy24 466 reads
posted
8 / 10

Hey Alexa...!  

I see you have wonders about outcalls?

I did to first starting out and believe me, the first 2 maybe 3  
outcalls are going to be scary(if at night), weird(cause you never  
suppose to talk to strangers in the first place.lol), and of course  
uncomfortable, due to the fact this is all very new to you.  

But..... If you take the time out to use certain precautions before  
you even meet and greet Mr. John Doe, then your first few outcall  
experiences will be a easy as 1-2-3....  

Always Always Always ask your client questions?????

1.) Get to know your client a tad bit.
 (what site did he/she get your # from, his/her name, age, etc.)
 but don't over do it with the questions, cause you will need to  
have something to chat about when F2F. - and of course you don't  
want to come off as the boys(red & blue lights)
2.) Before you even attempt to commute (meaning:travel) to your  
client make sure the donation offer is clear. No misunderstandings!  
~usually additional fees may apply when commuting! Well with me anyway:-)
3.) Safety FIRST.....! So always be aware of your surroundings.  
Protect your self(NO Guns) trust me their are other objects that are useful.  
If you know a girl-friend that you can talk to that don't "judge you" then  
I suggest you send a txt of your outcall information, just to be on the safe  
side. Because all in all you just never know, and its always best to be SAFE then  
sorry.  

Sorry to talk your ear off miss lady but trust that information is going to come in handy.
Hopefully I helped you out a bit.

leveille See my TER Reviews 471 reads
posted
9 / 10

thank you so much.
lol, you didnt my ear off, you were very helpful.
i know i doing the screening wonderfully, and would never change it for anyone one because i'd never want to risk my safety. But the question of LE is sometimes in the back of my mind

Posted By: MissCrissy24
Hey Alexa...!  
   
 I see you have wonders about outcalls?  
   
 I did to first starting out and believe me, the first 2 maybe 3  
 outcalls are going to be scary(if at night), weird(cause you never  
 suppose to talk to strangers in the first place.lol), and of course  
 uncomfortable, due to the fact this is all very new to you.  
   
 But..... If you take the time out to use certain precautions before  
 you even meet and greet Mr. John Doe, then your first few outcall  
 experiences will be a easy as 1-2-3....  
   
 Always Always Always ask your client questions?????  
   
 1.) Get to know your client a tad bit.  
  (what site did he/she get your # from, his/her name, age, etc.)  
  but don't over do it with the questions, cause you will need to  
 have something to chat about when F2F. - and of course you don't  
 want to come off as the boys(red & blue lights)  
 2.) Before you even attempt to commute (meaning:travel) to your  
 client make sure the donation offer is clear. No misunderstandings!    
 ~usually additional fees may apply when commuting! Well with me anyway:-)  
 3.) Safety FIRST.....! So always be aware of your surroundings.  
 Protect your self(NO Guns) trust me their are other objects that are useful.  
 If you know a girl-friend that you can talk to that don't "judge you" then  
 I suggest you send a txt of your outcall information, just to be on the safe  
 side. Because all in all you just never know, and its always best to be SAFE then  
 sorry.  
   
 Sorry to talk your ear off miss lady but trust that information is going to come in handy.  
 Hopefully I helped you out a bit.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 561 reads
posted
10 / 10

As someone so young and new, you run into more danger going to someone else's surroundings. I do not do outcalls period because it's 1. Twice the time you get paid for all things considered, 2. Uncomfortable for first time appts. because guys rarely know how to set the mood, lighting, etc. if you know what I mean, and 3. They can pull more shit when you are at their location. Very rarely does a guy pull some bs on an incall.  

My advice is spend the extra money to secure a location. That can be a studio apartment that you pay monthly rent on, to a hotel room each time you get a booking. Problem is, guys pull NCNS (no call no shows) and you're out money if you do the hotel thing.  

Your first order of business is screening though. You need to know who you are meeting before you do anything.

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