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Curious, have you actually had a lady refuse your condoms?  I started bringing my own last year (after a good session after which the lady told me what kind she used).  I just put a few in my pocket for the date, and haven't been been refused yet.  I'll admit, I dont have a huge sample size though (about 8 ladies).

Nervous, but excited. Better yet she knows it's my first time doing this but is ok with it. Few general questions - should I bring condoms? I'm assuming yes and have some I'm bringing. Do providers typically have things like lube at their place or must you bring those as well? Wish me luck boys and girls....ready to roll.

...she will have what's needed for the session. The providers like to use condoms they have. They don't know you or what you may have done to the condoms. Also consider they may be sensitive/allergic to certain kinds of lubed condoms or allergic to latex. It's best to let them supply them. Same goes for lube.

That said shit does happen so having an unopened box of condoms for unusual circumstances isn't a bad idea. But be prepared for her to decline using them.  

The "I ran out of condoms" trick is something less than reputable providers use as part of the scams they run on clients.  

By now you've probably already had the session and are somewhere else. This is still good information to have.

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Curious, have you actually had a lady refuse your condoms?  I started bringing my own last year (after a good session after which the lady told me what kind she used).  I just put a few in my pocket for the date, and haven't been been refused yet.  I'll admit, I dont have a huge sample size though (about 8 ladies).

...I've never been in a situation where the lady didn't have her own. Fortunately I don't have the issues with condoms that some guys do so while I do have some I like better than others I can use most anything.

My answer is based on the responses of nearly every provider that has responded to this question on this board and a couple others over the years. I have to say it is a "newbie answer" though meaning the questioner is a newbie. Once a guy has established some trust with a provider she would probably be ok with using his condoms especially if he has a particular kind he likes that isn't part of her usual supply. He would probably know if she had an allergy to lube, latex, etc.

Your're more likely to be refused on the first appointment when neither of you know each other. Also what if she is allergic to latex or to the lube/spermacide on the condom. You wouldn't/couldn't know that on a first encounter. There are some crazies out there too so the lady has to be cautious. No telling what some guy might do to a condom. Though her screening would hopefully remove them from the client pool.

I do carry an unopened box of 3 with me for just in case situations ever since one of the agency providers I saw left her condoms in the "other" room. There were none in the room we were in. She had to go get them at the most inopportune moment. She and I still laugh about that.

I guess as with a lot of things, it depends on comfort level.  So far it hasn't been a problem for me.

your time and enjoy your first provider, since you will always remember your first.

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