Newbie - FAQ

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as host of this board, I don't like smart-ass answers.  They have no place here.  If you are not going to help the newbs, don't comment.  We are here to help them, not be a smart-ass.

Swim

So I found P411 after being advised here to visit there. A lot of the girls there will say that they offer "no rush" sessions. What exactly does that mean?

I'm afraid that means that any girl I meet here or on P411 is going to keep delaying or off-putting it until the end of the session.

I'm really not looking for a "courtesan" to take to the club or the casino. I want someone who'll get to work right away; in and out in an hour; hour-and-a-half max. Does this site or P411 offer providers who offer those kind of sessions or do you have to take the girl out?

enjoy your time with her. Some gals, especially many of the 20 somethings, think it is better to see how fast they can get you to pop rather than enjoy your time with them. If you pay for an hour, you should get to stay an hour--not get rushed out the door after a quick pop.

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Keystone Kid is right. Guys hate to be rushed out the door and good providers know this, hence the "no rush" designation. Most ladies will work at your speed. Usually there is some break the ice chit chat for 5-10 minutes even for a shorter appointment time but that varies as well. Most ladies dont expect you to take them "out" as most sessions start and end in someone's hotel room without ever leaving the room. No rush to me also means the session doesnt stop exactly when the hour is up, but you should never take advantage of that either. An extra 5-10 minutes over the scheduled end time usually isnt an issue, if a lady has time.

look like Rush Limbaugh she will not suck your cock.

as host of this board, I don't like smart-ass answers.  They have no place here.  If you are not going to help the newbs, don't comment.  We are here to help them, not be a smart-ass.

Swim

Look at the timing on the post 3:00 A.M. and cut me some slack :D

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Totally NOT cool Curly

His advice and help is usually obvious, but the guy was messing around. I can link to hundreds of helpful replies he has made in the past. Are we not allowed to joke on here anymore?

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Just my 2 cents London, but the Newbie board should be different. Newbies are usually scared shitless (I know I was) at first and this board should be a medium for them to get info without getting wise ass comments. I dont think Silent is aware of Curlys past statements, again, because he is knew. It can be intimidating enough being new without all the piling on. Again, just my 2 cents.

not at the expense of someone that is asking an honest question.  This forum is here to help newbies without them having to worry about being made fun of or the butt of a joke.  I know curly helps a lot, but this comment just wasn't necessary.

Swim

I use that term in my ads.I like to get to know the gents that I will be spending time with.
It usually means in the hour or 90min you are with a provider she is not going to be watching the clock.
No rush means a provider will take her time with during your appointment.
It does not mean that she wants you to take her out in public.

a well written review by a veteran hobbyist will give you a much better idea of what "no rush" means. Of course you'll need to be VIP to read the details.

Posted By: SilentFurnace
So I found P411 after being advised here to visit there. A lot of the girls there will say that they offer "no rush" sessions. What exactly does that mean?

I'm afraid that means that any girl I meet here or on P411 is going to keep delaying or off-putting it until the end of the session.

I'm really not looking for a "courtesan" to take to the club or the casino. I want someone who'll get to work right away; in and out in an hour; hour-and-a-half max. Does this site or P411 offer providers who offer those kind of sessions or do you have to take the girl out?

in that amount of time anyway? "No rush" is simply a marketing term, but it is supposed to suggest that you will get the FULL amount of time you pay for regardless of the number of pops. Rushed would be if you paid for an hour, came in 10 min. and she was rushing you out the door after that.

To me, an hour is rushed in itself which is why I don't offer them anymore. For a guy like you, that might be exactly what you are looking for, but if you expect her to jump on your right when you walk in and not stop til the hour mark, you want more of a PSE vs. a GFE. GFE usually connotes we talk to your ass.

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Well, assuming you don't pop at the end of the session.
That's what I would interpret "no rush" to mean.

And if she isn't a clock watcher, you should be aware of the time.
Like others have said, going a few minutes over is usually okay and natural if you both are having a good time and caught up in an interesting conversation.
Just make sure that you're the one ending the session and that she won't have to remind you the time is up.

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