First of all I'm a newbie and have not seen any providers (yet) thru TER. Last time i payed for sex was at a high end brothel in Vancouver back in 2001. No Kissing, No Licking, No pussy touching, condom on for everything.
WOW! How things have changed!!! There is nothing i would rather do than DFK and DATY. I may even prefer it over sex if the girl is a 10. However as much as i'd like to, i can't imagine doing that with an escort (strictly for health reasons).
Almost all the high rated reviews i've read include DFK and BBBJ. Is anyone out there worried about STD's? I'm not talking AIDS (highly unlikely you will get it thru regular sex) or Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis (easily treatable by an MD). I'm worried about Warts and Herpes that can easily be transmitted by a simple "harmless" DFK or BBBJ. Herpes will stay with you for life!!!
If a girl is seeing let's say 3 different guys a day and has been working for over a month isn't it pretty much guaranteed she has Herpes? how could she not? I'm pretty sure most guys out there that have it aren't saying anything and neither are the girls.
Am i wrong? i hope so. Please comment. thanks.
It's all going to finally be about what you're confortable with. This has been discussed a gazillion times. Try the search here and in the general discussion forum and you'll find positions on both side.
With your comments and conclusions if I were you I would stay home and jerk your clown off, if you think he is clean...
BTW: These are questions you should be discussing with your doctor and making a choice yourself instead of on a public forum, but I will say your chances of staying clean are probably better with well reviewed providers than the average chick you picked up in your local bar last Sat.night...
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most well reviewed ladies are tested regularly, so a possative herpes test would put her out of business, and into an early retirement.
it's about your comfort zone as stated. Do your research and what is good for you may not be good for the next person and thats ok. Good luck, and have fun.
Nicole
"There is nothing i would rather do than DFK and DATY. I may even prefer it over sex if the girl is a 10. However as much as i'd like to, i can't imagine doing that with an escort"
I would never ask my Dick to penetrate before my tongue gave the A OK...
you guys are hilarious. thanks for the warm welcome.
Newbies. If you don't want to contract a STD, use a cover for everything.
AIM is Adult Industy Medical. Based in California and does much of the testing for the adult industry. They say if you don't have an outbreak of herpes you are not contagious. I have to test with AIM because I am in the porn industry. It's state mandated. Each state is different but the states that are heavy into the porn industry have tough requirements.
However, the drug companies say you should be on meds all your life if you test positive for herpes. Who has it right? Who knows? The safest way for all of us it cover everything.
I had a client come to me about 3 weeks ago. He had a roll of saran wrap in his briefcase. He tore off a sheet, spread it over my pussy and then proceeded to DATY. Surprisingly enough, it was fabulous. I felt every movement of his tongue and I had many, powerful orgasms. He does this for everyone he is with.
I think this is a very smart approach even though I know some of you would not like the saran between you and your tongue.He didn't mind it at all. However, no would even think twice about safety if we all did this and covered BJ's.
It's a trap. YOU don't like it if we don't offer DATY and BBBJ's. As long as we all practice these activities we are at risk. Let's eliminate the risk, inconvenience ourselves just a tiny bit and start being more careful.
Of course, that will never happen.
Anneke
Anneke, I have always provided this way and could care less if I miss out on a few guys who want the unsafe stuff...hell I consider them too high risk and would never see them anyway (and yes I know who they are...it's not hard to figure out).
It would happen if everyone did it. I mean I can't see all the guys tripping off to Mexico to get laid every week or so can you?
I mean seriously, I've heard of girls in my local area who will do ANYthing bareback for the right price, and nothing can convince me that none of them have any STIs after that time. It's terrifying to me, and there are certain gentlemen I simply will not see if they send me to certain girls for references.