That's the gist of it. Some ladies will be willing to work with you, some won't. The ones you meet you can consider "nurses"...very sexy nurses, who have seen it all. Beyond that, I'd need to know more about your condition to provide any further advice.

Send him a pm. However not sure if he's VIP.  Or you can do a search of his posts here and it might help you out.  
 

If heavy lifting and/or moving is involved, start with the more healthy size gals. I wouldn't go for the skinny minny or spinner type. That would be the only thing holding me back and other smaller size gals too.
What's your size..are you a solid husky man?  
What is your "needs assessment" regarding basic living skills?
Not that you gotta answer these on a public board but rather some quesrions/answers she will need to know.
Like, my besties child has a physical disability but she is some what ambulatory and only needs help when she steps up or down things and I put her shoes n shirt on her due to her limited mobility in certain parts (she has cp)
My cousin had LG and became totally immobile. Upper extremities too so we fed him n stuff.
So there's varying degrees of disabilities.
What's sort of assistance is needed.
What will be required of her to assist you.

Inform her of the above info about yourself as much as possible.
Also, I would lean towards the seasoned mature gals. Us gals have spoke of this and it seems the seasoned mature gals were more accommodating AND compassionate (not implying that all younger less seasomed gals are...but odds are most are)

There's a website  just for disabled hobbyist....I'll find it and post a link, k

Good luck and have fun....this can and will be done, I assure you.

Love & Peace

Basically, you should inform her ahead of time, and if she seems open to the idea, be sure to explain how everything works - and what doesn't. For example, not having feeling below a certain part, or really loving something in particular, etc. And be aware if you need things like a lift that it may be best to play at your place. things like a lot of stairs at her incall could also be a concern, and not only for those who are wheelchair bound.

Some girl can be a little squeamish, so you may want to detach your "bag" just before the visit, if at all possible. (those para- and quadriplegic know what I mean)

Here is what you do...

I am assuming you know your own limitations. Everyone has them disabled or not. Always tell the provider or agency upfront about your needs. Don't go into that much details about the session itself. Just say "I use a power chair and it maybe hard for me to move around. If you have a speech impairment like I do tell the lady beforehand. I setup my dates via email and texts. I have references that explain my situation to other ladies and agencies that helps out a lot.

If you do decide to hobby then you will be doing a lot of out calls. Out calls are where the lady comes to you. A lot of provider's incalls aren't very wheelchair friendly. Outcalls are generally more expensive and may require a 90 minutes date or even a 2 hour date. I wouldn't expect a lady to come for a 30 min date. That has been my experience.

Since you are newbie you have to get screen by newbie friendly lady or agency. That's where some disabled people have trouble. I got screen using my work info which is very common but if you don't have employment information. Then I would email Gina at P411. She maybe able to help you out.

Finding the first lady will take time. I went through 30 ladies before I found one that understood my situation.. Don't give up keep on trying.

I would buy TER VIP right away. That way you can read the full reviews. I do travel for work a lot so I have reviews from different areas of the country. You may want to try those ladies first. Also once you get VIP you can PM other members. You can always PM me.  

Try to attend a M&G that has help me out a lot. That way the lady gets to see you and interact with you before a date.