over the last 35 years.

However, I did get 3 STDs from about 6 civies I dated way back before I hobbied.

That tells me something.

I haven't gotten started in the hobby yet. I'm a virgin and I've been shy my whole life so I finally decided to lose my virginity to a provider. I already found one but I have a few concerns before contacting her. I wanna ask you guys if you have ever gotten any stds from receiving a bbbj and having protected intercourse with a provider. Please be honest and I also wanna know if any of you has ever gotten any stds from daty. Thanks and I hope I get many responses.

Well, losing your virginity to a provider is nothing new. Your main concerns are STDs, which is not surprising. First, I have been hobby for a couple of years, and I have not receive any STDs yet. I just got tested about one month ago for all types of STDs, and I am clean. I informed my doctor about my hobby, and here is what he told me:

BBBJ, you should be careful, if your not sure about the provider, then don't do it. DATY is the same. Some things to look for, any bumps, skin irritation, sores, scratches, cuts, or open skin should be avoid for BBBJ and DATY. You always want to look at the physical condition of the girl before making any moves, if your not sure, then don't do it. Some STDs don't physically appear, and some only appear at certain times, so, always be careful. The possibilities of an STD from protected intercourse is slim, if used properly. My doctor told me the chances of STDs when using protection for intercourse is extremely low, very low. So, that part you don't have to worry about. If you chose to DATY, check her physical condition, I don't swallow her juices when DATY, and I wouldn't recommend either. I only DATY for providers I know (have seen in before). If I DATY, I usually just lick the clitoris, and possibly suck on the pussy lips. I always check myself for cuts on my lips or around my mouth before DATY, and hers if she does BBBJ. A good way of checking her mouth for BBBJ is talking to her and passively looking at her mouth region.  

For me however, I recieve BBBJ and CBJ from different providers. You always gotta make judgements on the provider, it is never certain that your judgments are correct. Always be careful, if your not sure, don't do it. For me these days, I only receive CBJ because I am just tired of  worrying for STD. You really ain't missing out on too much. Its a chance game in this hobby, you can never be too sure, the best thing you can do is always use protection and use ur judgements. Sex can be enjoyable, but STD's are for life.

Most well-reviewed TER girls regularly test and also use the safest practices possible.  But when you are DFK-ing and receiving DATY from several guys a day, yes, it's possible to get an STD.  A condom helps, but is not perfect.  There are many discussion threads on this site about this, some quite recent.  So please do some homework and read back several pages or more of this board, read the self-help manual and make your decision.
PS:  You can also get STDs from a girl you pick up in a bar.  This is not a risk-free world or a risk free hobby.  Only you can decide if you are comfortable with the risk, but please read up on everything first.

This time I will add that many STDs are, of course, not forever. But that is totally beside the point.

Here is the point

After being with about 30 providers since last November, I was just tested for every STD and was completely clean.

The regular STD's are one thing, HIV is really what would be the most devestating one to catch. It is however not the easiest to get get, but it is FINAL. I always wonder, knowing these women do get around alot, and most I would guess see hundreds of clients a year, some regulars some new, and they get tested and are clean. That tells you something, but on the other hand, what would a provider do if she tested positive for HIV, do you think she would stop seeing clients when this may be the only means of income she has? I think some would stay in the game. Would you know if who you just were with is one of these? Somethings that we do in life are calculated risks, is it worth it? Yet alot of us take the risk. Think about if you passed this one to your SO, how would you feel? If you really think about it using your big head you may feel lucky that you have dodged the bullet for so long and may not want to do DATY or BBJ but play as safe as possible.

Unless your planning on remaining a virgin your going to expose yourself to risk no matter who you have Sex with. A provider or just an ordinary girl off the street. My daughter got an STD from just one encounter with a long time friend total civy type of situation. Her problem was she did not know she had an STD until 6 months later when she went to the doctor for something un related and found out. Luckily it was a period in which she was not seeing any guys at all. Providers can get an STD as well, but all that I have known are attempting to be very safe and a lot get tested on  a regular basis. So would you feel safer with a lady who knows the risks and attempts to keep them very low, or meet a girl like my daughter who is very inexperienced and not at all active but doesn't even know they have an STD.  You can only control your safe sex practices. Research on these boards about STD's plenty of information out there and do what you feel safest doing.