i was trying to find one of your responses on ettiquite that i read when i first started using your service.  it had to do with the hobbyist asking rates, prices, etc.  It said that the hobbyist should not do so unles the ad did not specifically give a donation amount.  It also told hobbyists' to not mention it when they were with the provider.  they should know what is expected and to simply put the donation on a dresser or table without mentioning it or pointing it out.  do you have a copy of this information?  i looked in newbies and could not find the copy.  ham1130